TW… loss

[Orangemoon123]

Hi all,

Thank you to thd amazing support in my last post. Sadly my scan yesterday no longer showed a heartbeat 😔

I am booked in for a D&C tomorrow. Did anyone ask for a genetic report as part of the D&C investigation? Who did you ask and when?

Thank you xx

[km307]

I’m so sorry for your loss, I hope everything goes as well as it can tomorrow.

I was told by my hospital they wouldn’t do any analysis as it was my first loss. I would ask your EPU today, it might be too late tomorrow.

[Orangemoon123 in reply to km307]

thanks KM I’ll do that now x

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Orangemoon. So sorry to hear of your loss and hope you have plenty of support just now. Just wanted to wish you all the best for tomorrow. As far as I know they don’t usually test the products collected during the procedure with a first loss. Thinking of you. Diane

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[TopGuntastic]

So sorry to hear this 😢 Sending you a hug 💕

[ButtercupGarden]

Just wanted to say how sorry I am that you are going through this, especially after having a sliver of hope from your last scan. I can't help re the genetic testing as when I had my MMC it all happened naturally after I stopped the progesterone so I didn't get the option. Hopefully someone else on here can help. Take good care of yourself. Sending hugs xx

[Aloros]

Sorry to hear of your loss. The hospital wouldn’t do it as it was my first miscarriage but I had the testing done privately by Igenomix who were brilliant.

[Orangemoon123]

thank you all so much for your responses 💚xx

[Asha82]

I'm so sorry to hear that, I also found out today my baby no longer has a heartbeat and I'm going in tomorrow for a d&c, it's so heartbreaking and seeing lots of pregnant women and babies is very painful, fingers crossed for future pregnancies, sending lots of hugs and support❤️xx

[Orangemoon123 in reply to Asha82]

Asha, I’m so sorry for your loss too 💔 it’s such a hard journey. I just got home half hour ago, such a strange and empty feeling.

I totally understand finding it difficult to see babies and soon to be mums. Just thinking, how do you get to the finish line, why can’t I get there.

Wishing you strength and prayers in becoming a mummy. We will get there 💝

[Asha82 in reply to Orangemoon123]

Thank you do much, it's extremely heartbreaking, I'm in the waiting room to be called in for the surgery, I can't stop crying, we have to stay strong even though it's extremely hard and stay positive that we still might have successfull pregnancies in the future, wishing you strength also and sending you lots of hugs xx

[Eggfreezer2015 in reply to Asha82]

So sorry to hear of your loss Asha. Big hugs xxx

[Asha82 in reply to Eggfreezer2015]

Thank you I really appreciate it, sending hugs back xx

[Orangemoon123 in reply to Asha82]

how did you get on hun?

For me it was ok, the procedure seems ok, the nurses were lovely. I didn’t ask about a follow up scan though. I read some people get that after 2 to 3 weeks to check it’s all been removed.

I didn’t sleep at all last week, I was wide awake. I’m hurting, on and off crying but I can plan forward- kind of. I want to try again In hopefully August.

💚✨

[Asha82 in reply to Orangemoon123]

I went ok thank you for asking, I had lots of pain after surgery in recovery, I've been really sad also crying heaps, I'm not getting it tested, we are also doing a fet in August or September with 2 embryo's, it's such a horrible time, I hope you can sleep soon, I couldn't sleep last night

[Orangemoon123 in reply to Asha82]

rest well hunni. I’m sad we’re going through this but take comfort that we can support each other xx

[Asha82 in reply to Orangemoon123]

Thank you, rest as well sweetie and we can definitely support each other through this horrible time xx

[Hidden]

Thinking of you both Orangemoon123 and @Asha82.

[Asha82 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you I really appreciate it xx

[Icsi_Wincy_Spider]

Hi Orangemoon123 i had the fetus tested as part of my d&c (showed Trisomy 15). Thats when we decided to genetically test all future embryos. I'd try get a genetic report if i were you . Thinking of you 😘😘

[Orangemoon123 in reply to Icsi_Wincy_Spider]

did you find anything with your tested embryos?

[Icsi_Wincy_Spider in reply to Orangemoon123]

We tested 4 blastocysts and 2 came back euploid (and 2 aneuploid).

[Eggfreezer2015]

So sorry to hear of your loss. Big hugs xxx

[Orangemoon123]

I suppose this would be another post but- it’s my brother’s wedding next Saturday- I don’t know what to do. Not only am I thinking how I’ll feel emotionally but also in terms of bleeding and cramping.