Hello, I wondered if anyonen had a similar experience or some advice. My husband and I have been trying for a baby and my chlamydia antibody test came back abnormal, suggesting previous infection (but no longer active). I had no idea but for this was recommended I have a laparoscopy to investigate and treat any issues found. I'm on a visa (until this August when I can apply for a permanent residency/ILR) so need to fund this as a private patient. This costs nearly £4500. We could just about pay this but worry as we're also told that even if the tubal damage could be addressed by this laparoscopy the function might still be damaged and the chance of us naturally conceiving is 20-25%, leaving IVF as our only option for conceiving. With £4500 we could do a cycle of IVF via a private route - what would you do? Should we go for a laparoscopy to get a clearer idea of the tubal damage hoping for the best and we can have a baby naturally, or should we just go for an IVF using the fund? We note that IVF success rate is also not that high - but at least we'd know that some steps would've been done for actual pregnancy?
Another thing I should note is that if I want to get IVF through NHS it's likely that I need to have this laparoscopy to get a diagnosis (or not). The problem with this is that the wait time for a laparoscopy is apparently 6-9 months. We are told that there's no wait list for IVF so if we do get a laparoscopy privately before I get a residency and become eligible for NHS funded IVF, that means that we can try for a couple of cycles without help and if no joy we could go straight to IVF through NHS.
Not sure if my question is clear but I do hope someone can help - thanks so much for reading this through, and I hope you are coping well and have all the support you deserve.