Thank you (possibly triggering)

[Fruitandflowers]

Hi everyone - thank you so much for all the help and support over the last few weeks. I felt completely let down by my clinic and GP, and didn't feel like I was being taken seriously, and I was quite frankly pretty scared. It really helped to hear your experiences and give me the confidence to push a bit. Long story short, my HCG kept going up even though there was nothing showing on the scans, and I became really quite unwell last week. Back to EPU and they booked me for surgery straightaway. Not a pleasant experience but I felt physically much better even by the following day so something was really not right. It feels sad somehow that my body tried so hard to keep and grow something that clearly wasn't ever going to be viable, and my hormones are now crashing pretty badly, so I'm empty in a lot of ways. And a lot worse off financially. But I'll try to dust myself off and put this down to a bad round and not lose hope. Thank you again x

[Purpledoggy]

I’m so sorry you went through this and it had a sad outcome. But, you’re ok, which is the most important thing. Sending hugs xx

[Joeysjourney]

So so sorry to read this. I've been thinking of you all weekend actually. Tough few days and weeks for you and very disappointing but at least you persisted and got the treatment you needed before things took a turn for the worse. Sending my love xx

[Fruitandflowers in reply to Joeysjourney]

Thank you so much. That means a lot. Yes, exactly, trying to look at the positive side which is that I'm fine, no lasting damage, and it could have gone very differently so counting my blessings. Just putting it down to a sad couple of months now x

[Klndmr]

I'm so sorry for what you've been through! The most important thing is you are here and you are okay and things will only get better from now on! Take a very good care of yourself, sending you big hugs ❤️❤️❤️

[Fruitandflowers in reply to Klndmr]

Thank you! I'm clinging to all those stories you hear about being super fertile after a loss etc - may not be much in it but it's a little glimmer that will see me through for a while x

[CarlottaD27]

I’m sorry to read this and learn what bad luck you have had. I hope you take time to look after yourself and let your emotions out … your resilience and hope is really admirable! Mindset is so powerful xxx

[Fruitandflowers]

Thank you. I think it has made me more determined, although that could just be the hormones talking! x

[Twiglet2]

I’m so sorry I have been thinking of you. I hear the relief in your post from your physical pain improving but sending a huge hug to help with the emotional side of everything you’ve been through. Stay safe lovely 🤗❤️‍🩹 xx

[Blueberry211]

I am so sorry you went through this xxx tough days but you will get there xxx feel free to pm if you wish x please take carw

[Applepie7]

Im so sorry you had to go through this. Look after yourself and I hope things will only get better going forwards. Sending you lots of love ❤️

[Booda21]

so sorry you’ve been through that. And I can’t believe how often we are ignored by these health care professionals, it makes my blood boil. Hopefully you continue to feel better and I wish you all the luck in the future ♥️

[DG2022]

so sorry to hear this. What a rollercoaster you’ve been through. Sounds like you had very poor care…it took them too long. But I’m So glad you are okay though. Hope you have lots of support around you. Take care. X

[Angli]

You handle the situation very courageously as many others can not take care of youself and your family

[Banana77]

sorry to hear this sending hugs x

[Hidden]

So sorry that it ended this way MrsOJ but I am pleased you were insistent and they looked into things. Hoping for happier times for you in the future xx

[Rhubarb5]

Hi, I was wondering what happened. I'm sorry to hear of your loss and that you had to have surgery. Well done for pushing it. And pleased to hear you are feeling better. Hope your recovery goes ok and brighter times ahead. xx

[TopGuntastic]

I’m so sorry to hear this news. Be kind to yourself while recovering physically and mentally xx

[DreamingOfTwo79]

I am so very sorry you're going through this. You did so well to advocate for yourself like that, I really hope you will very soon make this dream a reality, you are one strong lady! All the best to you! xx

[ForABabyPanda]

I am so sorry this is happening you. So sorry. I remember you being si comforting to me in early days of being confused by IVF. It’s not fair, o wish you rest and wellness now