Just wanted to say thank you to all you lovely ladies that sent me positive messages or just lovely words of support on my last post.
We have been for a 2nd scan today and again no heart beat with seen again , totally devastated as we were foolish to think this was our little miracle as I've never fell pregnant naturally in 5 years of trying untill now .
I'm not sure what the future holds for us as before this we were gearing up for donor cycle but neither of us are sure we have enough strength anymore , but we will take some time to gather our thoughts and possibly our strength .
Just wanted to say congratulations to every one had got there BFP and good luck to everyone that's going through this treatment , no journey is easy.
I'm going to sign off for a while and drink some gin !
Can’t eat any more cake. My belly doesn’t seem to stay small. You drink the gin. It’ll at least give you the feeling of doing something you can decide on yourself. Nothing numbs that pain away. If you do decide on donor ivf; give me a shout. But for now book a break and be you xx
So sorry it wasn’t good news. Fingers and toes crossed for any future endeavours but wishing you a relaxing recuperation time with other half and your lovely pooches xx
Really feel for you so much, please don’t think of yourself as foolish for keeping having hope despite such a fight. Being in a similar position myself TTC for 7yrs, i think it’s admirable we don’t ever give up hope and keep going despite the crap that’s continually thrown at us. I took the v hard decision to try donor route after years of unsuccessful ivf, if u need to ask anything about that route just get in touch as I’m still in the thick of it! It’s so hard when u reach these milestones of whether to keep going, I took 6 months out before pursuing the DE route, give yourself time, enjoy the Lakes and let Mother Nature give you a big hug over there and seek some peace in the gorgeous surroundings. Don’t beat yourself up, give yourself time and if the DE route is right for you, you’ll find the inner strength from somewhere to continue your fight, I’ve had so many times of thinking I can’t keep going but eventually find a bit of a reserve tank. All the v best and so sorry to read your post, I really hope you can keep going forward and get the result you both so deserve. Love from a fellow besotted cocker spaniel fan!! X
Sorry to hear you've been through the same sort of thing, I think we are both numb at the moment.
From nosing at your posts you are having treatment at were we where/ are going to have treatment. We were just going to go for tests as id got my bmi down and I had to email and say erm I'm pregnant. I hope your treatment is going well.
I'm sure we will find the strength to go on as long as we both think it's right physically and mentally.
Awwwww you can't get a better dog than a cocker 😊 xx
It is generous of you that you thanked. Such forums are beneficial. They bring together the people in the name of the losses. The relation of the grief is much stronger than that of the happiness. It is sad that your joy is gone again. Don't worry we all stand by you in this period of grief. I wish you the best for the future. May life bring you the best in the days to come.
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