Feeling depressed after EC

[Wylder]

Hi everyone. This is my first round of ivf so I’ve found this forum so useful. I had my EC just under a week ago and a good number of eggs were collected and I’ve ended up with 2 good and 1 medium quality embryos. I’m 40 and I know I’m really lucky for this.

I was unable to have a fresh transfer because of OHSS risk. I know it’s the right decision as I’m still bloated and sore but the waiting is hard. 2 days after the EC I started to feel really down and I just can’t shake a feeling of doom. I’m struggling to get out of bed. I often get bad PMT and this feels similar but just more depressed. I also want to eat everything in sight! I know I need to look after myself over the next few months to prepare myself for my FET but I’m worried I’m going to get more depressed and stressed because I’m depressed and not looking after myself.

I’d love to hear if anyone else experienced this after EC?

[Purpledoggy]

At this stage it’s probably just the hormones. Sounds easy to brush it off but honestly the IVF hormone ride is no joke. All I can suggest is to keep reminding yourself of the fact your hormones are making you nuts and you’re not losing your mind! I was is a really dark place after my first (unsuccessful) round but after 2weeks felt massively better and realised it was the progesterone comedown, basically like a short intense postnatal depression. Xx

[Wylder in reply to Purpledoggy]

That makes sense. This all really puts your body through it! Good to know you felt better after a few weeks, an unsuccessful round must have made it so much harder xx

[PPea]

I’m sorry you are feeling like that, but don’t judge yourself and try to be kind! I was also just craving sweets and for me usually is all or nothing 🤦🏻‍♀️ I just tried to go with more natural things like dried figs and dates, instead of cookies and chocolate! If you are not feeling ok to do things, just try do your best each day and I promise the next will be easier! Start with small things like making your bed. Sending you a virtual warm hug 🤗