Feeling deflated after failed FET!! 😢

[Bunny29]

Sadly yesterdays after Beta HCG blood test confirmed that our transfer was unsuccessful.

Feeling sad and just deflated, I did everything I possibly could, eating an amazing diet, stopped all alcohol, exercising, acupuncture, keeping my feet warm, vitamin supplements, pruns, pineapple, meditation and positivity.

I know the medication masks the same symptoms as early pregnancy, swollen boobs, bloating and belly twinges. But was ever hopeful and just feel like the wind has been blown out my sails.

Suppose to go to work today but just can not face anyone, not even my mum just wanting to hide.

We are so lucky and blessed to have had a successful frozen IVF with my 3 year old little lady. So I know I need to get my s**t together but can’t help just having a random cry 😢

Sorry just wanted to have rant, wishing and hoping everyone on their journeys all the success and luck 🍀 xxxx

[Woody87]

oh I am so sorry to hear this bunny. Sending so much love. Take time to cry and feel everything. It’s such an intense experience that takes up so much of your mind and body every day. jsut wanted to send love. X

[PrayingforMyBaby]

Your still a bless Bunny because you have your 3 year old. For us who dont have a baby ever since and got 3rd failed ivf was really hard. And still coping up on how to make it work.I always am living with a healthy life style, i dont deink and smoke..very rare i drink soda or wine.

I still wonder, i have complete set of vitamins. I even took prenatal vitamins.😢.we just really Pray 🙏 that the last cycle will work out.

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Sorry to read your post - take your time to grieve & cry

Sending you both a big hug

Janet

[AuroraXen]

Really sorry to hear this Bunny. It's always so hard. Having your little one might take some of the sting out, but I completely understand you wanting them to have a sibling! Everyone goes into each round or transfer obviously hoping it's going to work, and that's the most natural thing in the world. So when it doesn't work, it's just unbelievably crap. Don't be too hard on yourself, take all the time you need to cry and be angry and let it out. xx