9 days post and its a BFN

[Blueberry211]

I did a pregnancy test this morning and im just numb. Its a negative.I do not know where to go from here honestly.

I am disheartened completely and am not finding reasons to continue this journey. Its a complete heartache

[Gempuddleduck]

I’m so so sorry to read this. Sending you so much love xxx❤️

[Emilye92x]

I'm so sorry lovely 😢 this process can be so brutal and feels so unfair sometimes, take all the time you need and make sure to look after yourself ❤❤❤

[Kimbob82]

I'm so sorry. I understand the heartbreak of many failed transfers. If I remember correctly Blueberry you are under the care of a reproductive immunologist? I would think that whatever protocol he has you on, it's just not strong enough... would you consider ivig instead of intralipid? My RI has also prescribed me neupogen and tacrolimus on top of everything else this round as my immune system is clearly out of control. Just found out a week ago that my miscarriage I had recently at 9 weeks was a chromosomally normal little girl. So we are hitting this next cycle with some pretty heavy immune drugs. I think some women just need heavier treatment than others. At least you know you make good quality euploid embryos ✔️

I know that doesn't make it any easier for you right now though. X

[Blueberry211 in reply to Kimbob82]

Thank you for your reply. So he prescribed neupogen, tacrolimus, ivig- all at once? This is the first time i used intralipids.

[Kimbob82 in reply to Blueberry211]

Intralipids 9 days before transfer. Tacrolimus 2 days before transfer and neupogen is every 4 days starting 12 days before transfer. Ivig will be given after positive pregnancy test... It's hectic. But after 14 transfers, I'll do what it takes...

[Blueberry211 in reply to Kimbob82]

Best of luck for your upcoming transfer xxx

[Kimbob82 in reply to Blueberry211]

Thanks. Good luck on your journey also x

[IVFmumma]

I'm so sorry to read this 😢 x

[Skittles11]

Blueberry, I wish you had had a different result today. It hurts so badly to keep getting pushed back when we dare to hope, and I can see from your profile how much you're putting into the cycles. I can only hope your consultant has some guidance and maybe Kimbob82 comments are helpful in terms of the ivig. Sending hugs xx

[Blueberry211 in reply to Skittles11]

Thank you Skittles. Honestly, I dont know. We have been doing so much and nothing to show for it

[Hidden]

Hi Blueberry, sorry to hear your result. It really is heartbreaking. I think my result is heading that way as tested this morning and my line is no darker than 2 days ago (possibly a bit lighter). I’m sure we’ll pick ourselves up and move in when we’re ready. I have one frostie left and then I think I will be done. Need to start living again!

[Blueberry211 in reply to Hidden]

I am so sorry dear xxx i have to start again third retrieval unfortunately

[Hidden]

So sorry lovely xx

[Corchi]

I would keep testing it might change. Was it a pregnancy home test or a blood test? Sending so much love xxx

[Blueberry211 in reply to Corchi]

Urine test- but the same brand has always marked when positive. And i am 9 days post. I will check blood on friday but I know the answer

[Corchi in reply to Blueberry211]

I’m just saying perhaps it’s not showing yet as my doctor insists only on blood test 9,10th day post transfer. He said if home pregnancy test only on 14th day so perhaps?

[Blueberry211 in reply to Corchi]

It will be a miracle if so! I will be testing in two days time ( blood test) but im quite sure this will be it. Thanks dear for your courageous words

[Corchi in reply to Blueberry211]

thinking of you from afar ❤️❤️🎈🎈

[Banana77]

Thinking of you - try not to give up we had a failed too but remain faithful that you will you get your happily ever after xx

[Solly-44]

I’m so sorry to see this update love. It’s just shit, sending you big hugs xx

[Chel91]

Oh no, I'm sorry hun. It's really heartbreaking and unfair going through this 💔 Just wanted to second that there is still lots of options so don't give up. I'm also going down the road of more testing and IVIG, neupogen, etc. I definitely think there is the right treatment for all of us. You are putting in so much effort to get every box ticked, hopefully your doctor can get you more options for next time. Sending lots of love xx

[Blueberry211 in reply to Chel91]

Thank you so much xx

[Habibi87]

I am so sorry. This process is so unfair and painful. Sending you lots of love and strength

[Mudra85]

I'm so sorry Blueberry. I don't have any words, just to say I'm sorry this is happening to you. It's just horrible. I hope you're able to find some potential answers to why this is happening soon. Xxx

[Eloquentia]

Really sorry to read this. Big hugs!