Im heartbroken

[Glowy]

Hello mums. I just joined here today and I have some questions. Today is my test day after ET which was 15days ago. I had a negative blood test today but my period is yet to come. Is there any more hope left to hold on to? I'm devastated because we had to save up money for ivf. I'm just heartbroken☹️😥

[Faith103]

Hi 👋

I’m sorry to hear that your cycle has been unsuccessful. It truly is a heartbreaking process, I’ve had a couple of failed transfers and it does hurt every time. It’s just the roll of the dice which is such an awful thing to say when your playing with your life and children.

If your blood test is negative than it’s more than likely your transfer was unsuccessful 😔 the reason for you period not showing yet is prob down to the medication. I’m sorry.

Be kind to yourself, don’t lose hope just yet your very early in the process, just to give you some hope that I did get my son after failed transfers. Keep pushing. You got this xxx

[Kiri23]

Hello. Im sorry your blood test has come back negative. I know it is heartbreaking, the whole process is so challenging. Sometimes sadly it is just down luck. You will get through this, stay strong fellow warrior x

[Habibi87]

I just wanted to send you lots of love 💕 IVF is really tough and unfair and I’ m really sorry you have to go through this. Stay strong and be kind to yourself xxx

[Hidden]

Hi Glowy,

I think the blood tests are pretty accurate so you would be able to rely on that result. It’s most likely meditation stopping your period.

Take some time out for self care, I know how disappointing this can be. Sending you hugs

Xx

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Sending you big hug at this difficult time -make sure you have people who can support you around you - keep talking to your OH also

Thinking of you

Janet

[Glowy]

Thanks everyone for your kind and reassuring words. I've accepted my fate but im not giving up trying. One love