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Mrsgled1982
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Just got home from my viability scan and its not good news.

Consultant couldn't find a baby, just the pregnancy sac.

I felt my heart break into pieces when i heard him say there was no baby.

Feel lost

Ive been told to expect to miscarry over the next few days and to go back on the 27th for another scan. And if nothing has happened they will medically intervene.

Why is life so cruel? All we want is to start our family.

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Cinderella5

Im so sorry that your worst fears have come true! You're right life is damn cruel. Sending love and hugs!xx

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bibi_16

so sorry to hear this. :(

Lost of hugs and kisses for you

x

Aww so sorry to hear this, life is very cruel. Look after yourself xxx

I'm so sorry. Thinking of you. Take care xx

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vansoire

Oh no! ๐Ÿ˜” you poor thing! Thinking of you and hope you have lots of love & support over the coming days and weeks! So so sorry for your loss! Sending hugs Xx

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E_05

Iโ€™m so sorry to read this, your right is so unbelievably cruel ๐Ÿ˜ข take care of yourself, thinking of you xx

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Coracle

So so sorry. Much love and hugs to you xx

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Nancy36

So very sorry to read this ๐Ÿ˜”.

This happened to us last month at our 12week scan- I totally agree it is so very cruel.

Thinking of you & sending hugs xx

So sorry to hear this. Look after yourself xx

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lauren3189

so sorry to hear this x

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Lou7744

Am so sorry to hear this. Sending you a big hug xx

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Vicky35

Iโ€™m so sorry to hear this. Life can be unbelievably cruel. Look after yourself xx

Oh no.thats just the.mlst horrible thing ever. I'm really sorry. It's so cruel to have hope and have it all taken away with no explanation.sending hugs to you.๐Ÿ’”

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-noodles-

i am so sorry for your loss.

words seem useless at this time, but i am holding you in my heart and wishing you strength in the days ahead.

sending love & light โœจ๐Ÿ’•โœจ๐Ÿ’•

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romaluna2015

Iโ€™m so sorry this has happened to you. Here if you need a chat xx

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Squeak2

Big hugs to you ๐Ÿ’• itโ€™s just such a horrible feeling xx

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Poppy16

Terrible news. Really sorry to hear this. Just want you to know that I am thinking about you. Life certainly can be very unfair sometimes. One day at a time. Some day this horrible experience and loss will all be behind you. 2018 will soon be here and with it will bring hope, new beginnings. Trusting things go smoothly for you before the 27th. Contact your gp and ask for strong painkillers. A hot water will help with crampy pains etc. Big thick sanitary towels are useful too. The Miscarriage Association is excellent at providing support and help in terms of what to expect etc. Worth checking website. Sending you a big hug. Xo

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Kattalex

I cannot stop crying. I was definitely not expecting this. I partially cry for you as I know how difficult it is and cry for m because I may also be on the same situation tomorrow after my viability scan. My symptoms or lack of were so similar to yours. Be strong! My thoughts are with you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜”

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Sarah_S

Big hugs to you, this happened to me on my second cycle and it is just unbearable. Take time to grieve and have a break. Lots of support for you here xx

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Mrsgled1982

Thanks for all your kind words, it does mean alot to me.

At the moment i feel cheated and lost but with everyone's support i know we can get through it. I feel like im a sitting time bomb waiting for the inevitable to happen.

The hardest part was telling my husbands mum. This is her second grandchild she has lost.

Am sure with time we will be able to move forward but right now all i can say is why us, am sure that is what we all must think. i thought we had finally cracked it but it was just not ment to be.

Lots of love to you all

Lynsay xxx

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Sienna2โ€ข in reply toMrsgled1982

I know exactly how you feel that happened to me earlier this year and again today at 10 week scan life is so cruel :-( stay strong and keep trying thatโ€™s all we can do xx

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Mrsgled1982โ€ข in reply toSienna2

Ive just seen your post. Im so sorry that its happened to you too. Its such a cruel thing to happen to anyone.

Lots of love xx

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this awful time xxx

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TTCs

So sorry! Life is so unfair! Take care of yourself ๐Ÿ˜˜

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Gem1982

I'm sorry to hear this, you are not alone, my story is the same. I am in pieces just didn't see it coming and now I am broken x x

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Mrsgled1982โ€ข in reply toGem1982

Its horrible. Such an empty feeling. Im truly sorry that you have to go through this too.

Lots of love cc

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Tezzabell86

Iโ€™m sorry to hear your news. If there is anything I can do get in touch xxxx

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Fredaflintstone

So sorry to hear this - itโ€™s heartbreaking after a positive result. So hoping thereโ€™s still chance. Sending lots of love to you xxxxxxx

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Beebeestar

Iโ€™m so sorry. There are no words. I hope you find the strength soon to start again.

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Amanda86

So sorry to hear this ๐Ÿ™ thinking of you xxx

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7AVA

So sorry this has happened to you. Thinking of you xxx

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kumkums

I'm so sorry to read this. Life is not fair, but we need to fight for what we desire or want.

I pray God gives you strength to go through this period. It's a stressful and painful one.

Big hugs from me.

Iโ€™m so sorry, iโ€™ll be holding you in mind over the next few days.

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Sprinkles86

Iโ€™m so sorry Mrsgled, this journey is so hard and cruel. Sending you and your other half a big hug and know that my thoughts are with you xxxxx

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Hormomalmess

So sorry to see this. Big hugs xx

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Sara-J-

The same happened to me :-( it was awful. So sorry to hear your news x

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_MrsC

Oh gosh! Iโ€™m so sorry to read this. It is so unfair and at such a crappy time of year. x

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