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Having a real down day few weeks

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This week what should have been my 3 month scan has ended up me having a period had a ecoptic pregnancy as most you ladies know cried everyday couldn't control body pains bleeding depression.

if I had been pregnant this week would have been my 3rd month. But having a period instead, hot me hard this week.

 Here to all you other strong woman who are also still trying for rainbow baby. 8 years later and back to the drawing board.🥺 🥺 not sure how much of this I can take god give us all strength.

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Applepie7

Thinking of you x

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MrsBless

😥😢😭😭😭😭😭😭I can feel your pain! I am just on the stims and it's been so hard already 😫 yesterday scan they found a uterus Polyp but they are not sure because in the two previous scans it wasn't there. I cried a lot yesterday because how can something happen just now when I am going to have egg collection on Tuesday. To me it's already starting bad.

First was my Thyroid so in 27 days it's dropped off from 4.6 to 1.54 that's great but thin means I lost one moth. Now this Polyp if they confirm it tomorrow God knows when I will have my embryos transfer.

It's so so hard!

I am so sorry for your journey!

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Kittykat198

I know no one can change this or make it better for you but sending a hug because Ivf is the worst. Xx

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MomaJoni

You can do it. I am on my 12th year. Multiple miscarriage, an ectopic, IVF, IUI, FET and a still birth. I am now pregnant again. You won't give up, you're made to be a mummy. Keep up the fight xxx

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JA-fnukPartnerNurseFertility Network UK

Take time to grieve - look after your self Be sure to keep talking to your OHSending a big hug

Thinking of you

Janet

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Mlove12

I am so sorry you’ve been through all of this. You are clearly and an extremely strong woman so hats of to you for being so amazing.We all have those days, I’ve been having them quite a lot recently, how unfair infertility is, jealousy, sadness, anger- emotions definitely can get the better of us. I find making time for my and my partner the best therapy and prioritise our mental health. A good network is always really helpful too.

I hope your ok and here if you ever want a chat/rant xx

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Tranters

I completely understand. Make sure you take the time you need to recover and grieve. I’m rubbish at remembering this but it’s ok to be sad. I think sometimes when we go through these things we forget to let ourselves be sad. I know I’m terrible for forcing myself to get up and smile when I actually need the time to heal. Sending lots of love your way and positive vibes. Xxx

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