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Today is the first day in a couple of months that I feel so down :( I am 4 days into my down reg bleed and it’s still heavy, I have no energy for work today! I just wanna hide in my own little bubble:

Thought I would come outside for some relaxation in the sun but all I can hear is the cute little boy next door with his mum playing in the garden wishing this will be me one day 😢

Sorry for the depressing post, just needed to get it off my chest to people who understand ❤️

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Fingerscrossed34 profile image
Fingerscrossed34

I’m having a down day too. I guess we just have to think tomorrow will be better! 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Sunshineraye in reply to Fingerscrossed34

:( I just want junk food and an early night and start again tomorrow x

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Fingerscrossed34 in reply to Sunshineraye

Me too. We’re having a sofa afternoon with Netflix. Our shopping is delivered tonight and I know there’s wispa Golds in it! 🙈 So much for healthy eating! It’s a long hard process. An early night sounds good!! x

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Sunshineraye in reply to Fingerscrossed34

Let’s do what we like today and start again tomorrow. We deserve it 🌹 x

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Kyell2

Aw it’s so bloody tough to be positive sometimes! Have a wee bit of chocolate and be kind to yourself...hope that period eases soon xx

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Sunshineraye in reply to Kyell2

I can’t seem to shake it today. Everything I try and do I find myself drawn to the sofa again 😩 thank you :) xx

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Kyell2 in reply to Sunshineraye

Nothing wrong with a sofa day, we all need one and everything else can wait xx

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bextoliver

Just wanted to say I’m sorry you’re having a down day. Definitely sounds like a day you should just take it easy and spoil yourself

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Sunshineraye in reply to bextoliver

Thanks hun, have a take away on the way xx

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Drives

Sending you a big hug. Chill out and have some chocolate 😘 you definitely deserve it x x x

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Sunshineraye in reply to Drives

Thank you lovely. Hope your doing ok xxx

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Drives in reply to Sunshineraye

😘😘😘😘😘

Sorry to hear that. It could be the Buserelin - it always made me really quite miserable and a bit sorry for myself. One of the nurses at my clinic call it ‘witches brew’ for being so horrible. Treat yourself you deserve it!

Good luck for your FET x

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Judy18

You are definitely allowed to have down day. Heavy days suck at the best of times.

One thing i have learnt since starting this journey is us women are so hard on ourselves. I know i was. We are going through a really tough trying time and still surviving day to day stuff to. We are all bloody wonderwomen but even she was allowed a day off 😊 Try to go easy on yourself. Self care (for example, sofa and a take out) is just as important as healthy eating and powering through!

Sending massive cuddles and love xxx

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Sunshineraye in reply to Judy18

Thank you, I did exactly the above and felt much better yesterday. Bleeding isn’t as bad now either😃 xx

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Kiedy84

Oh my dear, I am sending the biggest hug your way. It's the drugs kicking in, remember we are here for you. Xxx

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Sunshineraye in reply to Kiedy84

Thank you lovely 😘 hope your doing well xx

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