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3rd time unlucky 8dp2dt

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As the title says it hasn’t been our time once again. AF is well and truly here. I thought this round would be different. We changed clinics, changed protocol, found out I had high NK cells and got the meds for that, taken blood thinners, managed to get two embryos which is unheard of. Added additional supplements and we’re back to square one. Time to grieve, pick ourselves up and try to figure it all out once again 💕

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Make sure you have people around you for support & keep talking to your OH Sending a big hug

Take care

Janet

I am so sorry Judith, one round I had full on AF 7dp3dt so same timing, it always feels so heartbreaking but also worse that you can’t even make it to OTD with hope. Sending you a huge hug and really hope your clinic have some suggestions when you have your follow up xx

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XxMrsBXx

Am so sorry to hear this , sending love to you ❤️ Xxx

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Skittles11

Hi Judith

So sorry to hear this, I had my fingers crossed for you. I hear you in that it's incredibly difficult to know where to turn next when you've made several changes hoping that one of these would have made the difference. I have been / am in a similar position myself. 2 embryos is really good though and better than you have had before and so I hope this can be repeated for you in another cycle if that's the way you choose to go xx

Out of interest what supplements are you taking?

I am sorry JudithSS. 😞 Remember you are not alone, and your turn will come, as it does for everyone who never give up. Sending you a big hug 🫂

Really sorry to hear and sending a hug xx

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Twiglet2

So sorry to hear that 😢 I hope you have people around you to lean on lovely xxx

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Anonymou5

Hi Judith, I’m so sorry to hear this take time out to find yourself again. I’ve been there three times AF day8 post transfer. I’ve kind of numbed to it now. If or when you are ready for your next round add lubion the last cycle/round my AF held til day 12 xx

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Blueberry211

Excuse my ignorance but what is AF?

I am so sorry to hear that it failed. Remember you are not alone. Two failed cycle for now and fearing the next.

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AuroraXen in reply to Blueberry211

AF is Aunt Flo, I.e your period xx

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Blueberry211 in reply to AuroraXen

Thanks for the clarification 😅

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AuroraXen in reply to Blueberry211

No worries at all, there are a lot of acronyms and initialisms on here 😂🥰

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AuroraXen

Ah Judith 😢 I'm so sorry! This is so $hit. You've made major changes and it just isn't fair, you deserve to have luck here!! I know how disappointing it is, and how raw everything can feel right now. 2 embryos was so amazing too. Are you on a lot of progesterone ? Sending all my love xx

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JudithSS

Thank you so much darlings. Bleed stopped for all of yesterday and started again this morning, my husband and I had an argument as he doesn’t want me to test (OTD is weds) anyway bleed started when he left so I thought F you I’m testing as I can’t deal- it’s come back positive, faint but positive 🤯 not sure if it’s another chemical or what 😭 JA-fnuk Hidden XxMrsBXx Skittles11 Hidden Hidden Twiglet2 Anonymou5 Blueberry211 AuroraXen

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AuroraXen in reply to JudithSS

😱🤞🤞🤞 Hoping so much this will work out for you ! Hang in there xx

Ooooo maybe it was implantation!? Exciting!! Maybe test again in a few days? If OTD is weds it’s still early days 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 Xx

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I have no idea! One thing I do know is when I have a 💩 I start to spot, gross I know. I’ll wait until Wednesday, just so stressful everytime you go to the loo and wipe 😭

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Krystal_43

Sorry to hear this Judith. How are you holding up?

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