BFN 😭

[MakingbabyNM]

I’m numb. I didn’t think I’d be writing this today. Official test day tomorrow but I know there’s no hope x

Ps has anyone ever had a -VE Day 10 then +ve the next day? xx

[Hoping20]

So sorry for your BFN this morning. I know how devastated you must be feeling right now. And I know nothing anyone says or does will make you feel any better. Give yourself time to process what has happened and in the meantime please take extra care. Thinking of you today x

[XOXO13]

I’m so sorry to read this 💔 I know it hurts so much right now, it’s raw, so take your time to grieve and process. Treat yourself today and look after yourself. Xx

[Sunshine50134]

I’m so sorry - this process can be so cruel. I also got a BFN yesterday so I know exactly how you are feeling. Please be kind to yourself & know you did nothing wrong 💗 thinking of you xx

[JudithSS]

I’m so so sorry! There’s nothing like the pain of a failed transfer! Allow yourself to feel all of the feelings and be gentle to yourself xx

[Mahriya]

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I just had my bfp taken away from me and feel your pain. It’s very difficult so give yourself time to deal with it. I know there are no words to make this better really so we’ve got to do what we need to do and get all the support we can. xx

[Jujumama83]

I’m not wanting to give any false hope but I did a test on day 10 BFN and my OTD was day 12 and I got the faintest positive. My LG is now 16months old so it can happen x wishing u all the luck of not for this cycle then the next xx

[MakingbabyNM in reply to Jujumama83]

Wow really. That’s incredible! I won’t get hopes to high I don’t think it will be the case for us anyway but it’s not over till it’s over right…xx

[AuroraXen]

Ahh no 😢 so sorry to hear this. Give your lovely little girl and your partner a big hug and just try to ride out these next few days, which are always so hard after a BFN. Getting a BFN is very disappointing and happens just too often 💔 Keeping things crossed you might be one of the lucky ones and see that test changing tomorrow 🤞🤞That's of course what we all hope for when testing a bit early 😘 Sending lots of love xx

[MakingbabyNM in reply to AuroraXen]

Have u seen that happen on here before? Thanks so much for your support honestly xx

[AuroraXen in reply to MakingbabyNM]

I have (and indeed after my last BFN I was searching for all such stories for hours 😂). Sometimes people say where late implantation happens and you only get a late BFP it doesn't tend to end well. But in other cases (like Jujumama above!) it does. It DOES seem to be rare, I'll be honest, but it definitely happens (that's why the clinics set the OTDs where they do 😘). xx

[HMCW22]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending lots of love ❤

[MakingbabyNM]

Thank you all so much. I’ve read some of your stories so for you to want to support someone that hasn’t really got fertility issues just no male factor shows how incredible you all are despite your struggles xx

[Phoenix200]

I’m so sorry for your BFN. It’s so sad and devastating. I am the same boat so I know how you feel. Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to understand and process it all. Sending you lots of hugs . DM me anytime if you need to chat or vent

[Littlepeax]

So sorry ❤😔 its so painful. Please be kind to yourself and look after yourself. Lots of love to you xxx

[Ala00]

I'm in the same boat. It's just awful. Sending you lots of love and hope for the next round