No Christmas miracle this time

[ClaireB24]

Sorry to add to what seems to be lots of December BFNs! I’ve felt it in my gut it hadn’t worked for the past few days and got confirmation this morning. It’s been the longest TWW I’ve gone through yet.

I think it’s time to look at other investigations before another round. Thinking of doing NK killer cells or maybe a scratch before transfer. I’ve never had an intrauterine pregnancy, only ectopics so I want to try and find some answers.

I wish you all a merry Christmas and please know how much strength I take from all your amazing stories, what incredible bunch of women there are on this forum.

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry hunny! You're right, there have been so many BFNs in this December. Me being one of them ( after finding out I'm pregnant, a week later I miscarried soo...) I know how hard must be for you. I'm prepared to go further and try until I don't have anymore solutions. That's the only thing we can do, try so we won't regret after a few years....Miracles take longer to create!!!🤫🥰 I wish you a happy and lovely Christmas and may it bring to the strength and hope we all need to have in this time of year.

[ClaireB24 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for your lovely reply. I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s so painful seeing those lines only for it all to go wrong. May 2022 bring us a bit more luck!

[Hoop123]

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry!! 😥 I honestly thought we must be done with BFNs by now (I agree, there does seem to be a lot this month!) but thank you for sharing your story and we are all here for you.

Best of luck for your next steps and investigations - I hope you find the missing puzzle piece soon. Wishing you a very restorative and comforting Christmas break so you can come back fighting in 2022. We'll get there! xxx ❤️❤️❤️

[ClaireB24 in reply to Hoop123]

Thank you hoop123, that’s really kind. I hope everything goes well for you next year, feels like we all deserve some luck at this point!xxx

[Redsequin]

Oh no, I'm sorry. I've been checking in on everyone on this forum and seems like no one has had a positive this time. Infertility is just the worst. Sending healing vibes and hope your Christmas celebrations help take the edge off. xxxxx

[ClaireB24]

Thank you lovely. Hope you have a lovely Christmas, things can only get better in 2022. Have my fingers crossed for you with your next round xxx

[pink_lemon]

Hello lovely, I was on the same boat. Previous early mmcs and only went the ivf route to get any embryos we got tested to avoid more miscarriages. Got a bfp after our first fet of an euploid embryo. First trimester was anxiety hell. I think my first scan was at 7 weeks and we could already see heartbeat. Every scan was a new set of anxiety and the bliss after it barely lasted 24 hours before I started waking up in the middle of the night with worry something would happen again. I even had an early bleed and my heart went down the drain thinking I was having another loss. After passing the bridge to 2nd trimester, anxiety hell changed to anxiety only. Anyway, just wanted to let you know that how you feel is completely normal, that you are not alone, just try to embrace it and take it day by day. I really hope that everything will go well for you this time. xox

[Lacryacky]

So sorry Claire! We tried an IUI home kit this cycle, while we are waiting for the next ivf one, I hoped it will work, but nop. Don’t know what was in my mind thinking it will, my period was a bit late and I thought yeeeyyy this is it....is hard!!!Wish you all the best and lets hope the New Year will bring our BFP!!