We were so confident at the beginning of the year that ivf would be an easy road for us. I never had a problem falling pregnant it was just my tubes that were the issue. How very wrong were we!! 3 rounds down, no BFP & no Frosties, I feel so guilty that I can’t give my daughter a sibling that she so desperately wants and deserves. It’s been the longest 2 1/2 years I feel so lost and so far away from a happy ending 😔
My sister is pregnant & our best friend is trying, this whole process is wiping me out. I’m normally such a strong person but I just don’t know what to do to make any of this better 😭💔
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I’m so sorry to read this. It’s hit me so hard as this was me last Friday.
I got a BFN from our 4AA. I was confident we could get a sibling for our miracle baby boy but it didn’t happen.
I have the same issue as you I’ve only got one tube due to ectopic and my other tube is blocked so I can’t conceive naturally. I also have endometriosis. Don’t give up it’s not the end. I have told myself I’m going to take a year out and come back to it. It’s so hard. I just knew this time hadn’t worked. I didn’t feel pregnant one bit.
Take time to to cry and look after yourself.
Always here if you want a chat.xxx sending you love and hugs 🤗
Thank you 😘 sorry you didn’t get a better outcome last week. If I was you I think taking a year out is a good shout, enjoy your baby boy while he is still so little rather than dealing with the stress of ivf. I think deep down I knew it hadn’t worked for us as well, I had no symptoms & I always have before. I cannot wait until we get our 🌈 & can get off this awful rollercoaster. I want my mind & body back x
Be kind to yourself this is a very stressful time - make sure you have support from your other half - keep talking to each other FNUK have a support group you might find helpful https//facebook.com/groups/seconda... that has monthly zoom callsThinking of you
I'm so sorry you're having to go through all this. It sounds like you are feeling very overwhelmed, which is only natural. The Podcast "IVF This" has a few episodes on infertility burnout that might be of use? Anyway, I hope you have supportive people around you and are able to have a rest and take time to process all of the emotions. Sending hugs xxx
Thank you I will take a look at the podcast. I am so lucky I am surrounded by supportive people but in some ways that makes it harder because I feel like I am letting them down as well x
I know it can feel like it, but I promise you you’re not letting anyone down. You are doing your best in a situation you didn’t chose, and where so much is out of your control 🧡
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