Gutted BFN

[Bex2]

So OTD was this morning and it was as I suspected a BFN 😭. Started with AF type cramps last night and just had a gut feeling. I'm devastated as this was our last try with my own eggs (42 in March so time not on our side). Just feels so unfair.

[Picalilli99]

I’m so sorry that it was a BFN. Just so disheartening. I understand and can relate to all the feelings you described about your OE and age. Life really can be so unfair. Sending you big hugs lovely xxx

[Bex2 in reply to Picalilli99]

Thank you. I honestly thought initially this would be our turn as only got 1 egg retrieved and it battled through to be ET with a reasonable grade, but I guess just wasn't good enough quality. Thank you xxx

[Hidden]

So sorry, its just so devastating isn't it. Particularly when you are a certain age and there is own egg versus donor pressure. Sending you the hugest hug. Hope your clinic has some suggestions for you and you get clarity on next steps. Take some time to just feel sorry for yourself though xx

[Bex2 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you, it really is. There is just a constant battle isn't there. Just wish was easier sometimes but guess nothing worth having ever is. Thank you for your kind words xxx

[Redsequin]

Hi Bex, I'm so so sorry to hear this. It's all so freaking unfair sometimes. I really hope after you've had time to grieve this disappointment that you can work with your clinic to find new hope in whatever form. Thinking of you. Jessica xxxxxx

[Bex2 in reply to Redsequin]

Thank you Jessica for your lovely message. It's heartbreaking 💔 xxxxx

[Redsequin in reply to Bex2]

It really is heartbreaking, and I find it can be isolating too since people who've never experienced infertility often don't understand. We're all with you though, and keeping fingers and toes crossed that one day you get the good news you deserve! xxxxx

[Bex2 in reply to Redsequin]

No, thats it's isn't it nobody who hasn't been through it can ever really understand. Thank you so much 🤗 xxxx

[LittleT123]

Sorry to hear this 😢

[Bex2 in reply to LittleT123]

Thank you xx

[DisneyJL10]

So sorry to see this post Bex. 😔💔

[Bex2 in reply to DisneyJL10]

Thanks xx

[Savvy_teapot]

Sorry to hear this and sending kind thoughts to you! Feel what you feel.

[Bex2 in reply to Savvy_teapot]

Thank you xx

[Bex2]

Thank you all for your kind comments xxx