BFN gutted

[WeeJacs]

Title says it all. 1st FET attempt, 3 fresh, 2 Mc and 2 BFN. This was a natural FET, just felt so uncomplicated with no meds. Clear blue this morning but still need to go in on Monday for bloods as this is what our clinic recommends x

[Tugsgirl]

I’m really sorry. It’s so hard and you’ve done so well so far. Please be proud of yourself for all you’ve been through xx

[WeeJacs in reply to Tugsgirl]

You’ve been through so much too Tugsgirl. Is there anything u changed at any point?? Your story gives us so much hope 💞xx

[Tugsgirl in reply to WeeJacs]

Ya know, on my last cycle I decided to stop obsessing over everything. Of course I obsessed over symptoms or lack of them but I decided to eat cake, eat chocolate and just live relatively normally. No scratch. No pineapple xx

[WeeJacs in reply to Tugsgirl]

That’s what I felt I did on this 1. Did your clinic do anything different? X

[Tugsgirl in reply to WeeJacs]

Not since they added in blood thinners because I have lupus anticoagulant and it had caused my three previous losses, but they started me on the blood thinners a couple of transfers before and they were bfns xx

[WeeJacs in reply to Tugsgirl]

I have been tested for everything all ok. We will arranges review. Thanks again and congrats wee 1 is just gorgeous x

[Cinderella5]

Aww weeJacs I'm so sorry, it doesnt get any easier does it! Sending hugs.😕xxx

[WeeJacs]

Thank you, doesn’t get any easier. 1 last 1 in the freezer as the 1st didn’t survive. We’ll take some time to recoup as usual and see the doc for review before attempting the last 1. Just so disappointed, when we went to the private clinic after our 2 MC with the nhs clinic, consultant was so encouraged we had been pregnant twice with our previous attempts. We’ve had all the tests and it’s picked up nothing. Just down to bad luck they said, a numbers game. Heartbreaking and soul destroying at the same time xx

[Cinderella5 in reply to WeeJacs]

It most definitely is the most soul destroying thing I've ever had to do so completely agree. Yes take some time out for you guys and see how you feel.xxx

[WeeJacs in reply to Cinderella5]

Keeping everything crossed for u xx

[Lou7744]

Im sorry to read this. Sending you big hugs 💕 xx

[Livinginhope2019]

Sending you a big hug xxx

[Picalilli99]

I’m so sorry you did not get your bfp. It’s so tough. Sending huge hugs xxx

[Hidden]

I'm so sorry to read this, you are doing the right thing by taking some time out to recoup. Be kind to yourself xxx

[Core]

So so sorry to read this xx