After finally getting our first BFP in March we had some bleeding at 6, 7 & 8 weeks but each time we had a strong heartbeat and everything was fine. Finally started getting excited when we got past 12 weeks last weekend. But it was not meant to be. Started bleeding again on Wednesday and miscarried on Thursday. Absolutely gutted.

The miscarriage alone is hard enough but it's also having to decide what to do next as well. It's not as ease for us with fertility problems to just try again.

After 2 years of what feels like constant treatment and appointments I think it's time for a break for a month or two. 💞

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  • I'm so very sorry. This journey can be so incredibly cruel. Stay strong and take care. Thinking of you. X

  • So sorry to hear's so cruel sometimes!! xxx

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. A break from treatment is good, give your body time to heal and yourselves some time to grieve.

    I know how you feel. I can't push ahead with treatment until I get my period back so maybe my body needs the break too. Again I'm so sorry for your loss 😞 xx


  • I'm so sorry. Take time to grieve. This process is so hard. 😘

  • Oh gosh I'm so sorry for your devastating loss, life can be so damn cruel. Sending big hugs xx

  • Oh no so very sorry to hear that life is incredibly

  • I'm so sorry this has happened.

    This is so unfair!! Look after yourselves. Big hugs xx

  • I'm so sorry, I can't imagine how heartbroken you must feel. Definitely take some time off before you decide anything xxxx

  • I'm so sorry to read this xx I can only imagine your pain. I completely understand the need for a break. We are the same - exhausted from the process and emotions. Take care and I hope you find some relaxation xx

  • Your title says it all...gutting! I am so sorry for your loss and am thinking of you xx

  • I'm so sorry to read your post! How cruel life can be!! Thinking of you both & sending a big hug.xx

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. How utterly devastating. I think you're right about giving yourself a rest - you must feel so drained. Focus on you and your other half and take each day as it comes. Take care, Vic x

  • Big hugs . Sorry to hear your news x

  • So sorry :-(


  • I'm so sorry you've had to go through this. Sending you love and strength.


  • So sorry to read this... Sending huge hugs xxx

  • So sorry Hun xxx

  • Really sorry for you loss, big hugs 🤗 xx

  • So sorry xx

  • I'm so sorry to hear this! I can't imagine what your going through ❤️ Heartbreaking .. I'm hoping you get your little miracle rainbow baby soon .. keep strong hunn xxx

  • I'm so sorry to read this and can't imagine how devastated you must be feeling. Glad to hear you're taking a little time out before starting again, take care and be kind to yourself. X

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