Fet 3rd round not feeling the positive vibe 😕

[Bigbb]

3rd round Fet testing on Wednesday no signs at all part from slight back pain .

Called in sick today at work I am sure they understand but the worrying is killing me what if it has failed again ???

I really do not think I can go though with this again my mental health is not OK!!

I am hoping for a positive result on Wednesday but so scared what if it fails again I have no symptoms at all presenting a positive sign .

Ladies I feel I need to speak to someone that understands this horrible journey 😔

[Wonder_Dog]

Hey, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You’re just right to come off work. It’s a horrendous journey and trying to concentrate and think of things other than the outcome is almost impossible. If you can watch some funny films or get lost in a good book, I’ve found that was a good distraction for me. Also, I read loads of posts this past couple of days that say LOADS of women don’t get any symptoms at all til about week 5/6 & beyond!

I’ve just found out this morning that our 3rd attempt hasn’t worked but I’m keeping everything crossed that it’s 3rd time lucky for you 🤞🏽🙏🏽 xx

[Bigbb in reply to Wonder_Dog]

Good morning thank you for your reply .Firstly I am sad to hear your sad news it is the most challenging moment in life as women that you have to face with .

I am trying to be positive and relax but it'd easier said then done I mean I ment to have my period tomorrow and ment to take pregnancy test according to my clinic on Wednesday and all lastnight I had these symptoms of back pain etc .

I mean I had 2eggs put in I cant take the waiting around and stress it is the most hardest to avoid but I will try my best .

I hope you are ok I know it is the worst thing to say to someone that is not ok .

Fertility is the most hardest part in life that I have faced with so far and I hope you won't give up and keep on trying 💜

[Millbanks]

Hi lovely, just wanted to send a hug - it’s such a hard thing to go through. If it helps I had absolutely zero symptoms on my last 2WW and we got our BFP. Like absolutely nothing - I was convinced it had failed again. So don’t give up yet. Xx

[Bigbb in reply to Millbanks]

Hello my lovely ,Thank you for the reply I mean I got slight back pain and my discharge is similar for when I will start my period .

I am so scared I can't cope with the stress level.

I hope for a PFP the fear of it failed stops me doing anything at the moment.

Many hugs back .

All I do now is pray for good news .

[Millbanks in reply to Bigbb]

Aww it’s so hard. I couldn’t bear to test at home so just waited for bloods. Stay positive, you never know!! Xx

[Bigbb]

Unfortunately my clinic don't do bloods only of you request this they recommend home test is the better option. I am dreading the test on Wednesday morning!!

I said to my husband if it is BFN I need to a break for the next round .

I just want Wednesday to come now 😩

[Millbanks in reply to Bigbb]

Aww ok. Just take a deep breath and do it. Maybe better to ask your husband to look at the result. I could never do it myself xx

[ZessB]

Sorry you are struggling so much. I had a positive BFP on my third FET with zero symptoms and the absence of symptoms continued until week 8 so you are definitely still up with a good chance to get a BFP. Let’s hope the next 3 days go quickly. Keeping everything crossed for you xxx

[Bigbb]

Thank you coe the positive reply however I saw a bit of spotting yesterday aswell which made me worry more I hope this is not a sign of failure .Tomorrow I shall test and find out the truth and face the reality what ever the results.

God knows how I will react but either way I have to stay strong and continue with life .

I am happy you had bfp and I hope as you say this will be me tomorrow morning xx

[Wonder_Dog]

Bigbb thinking of you this morning 🙏🏽🤞🏽✨💖

[Bigbb in reply to Wonder_Dog]

Ladies thank you for all the support I had a BFP this morning over the moon wishing everyone the happiness me and my husband can explain how we feel ❤

[Millbanks in reply to Bigbb]

Woohoo!!! Congratulations xx

[Bigbb in reply to Millbanks]

Thank you 😊How are things with you??

[Millbanks in reply to Bigbb]

Good thanks lovely. 2nd scan was perfect so feel like I can relax a tiny bit now and start to enjoy it. Xx

[Bigbb in reply to Millbanks]

Oh how lovely to hear that ,I am so happy for you .

I got my first scan in 2 weeks time so exited.

Do they let your husband or partner to go in with the scans ??

[Millbanks in reply to Bigbb]

Yes he’s been allowed in both times 👍🏼🥰

[Wonder_Dog in reply to Bigbb]

Bigbb amazing news ❤️💖🥰🙌🏼🥂👶🏻✨ absolutely delighted for you xxx

[Bigbb in reply to Wonder_Dog]

Thank you I still have a long journey head but I am optimistic and have different view approach about this time ,how are thing with you???

[lou12208]

Thinking of you right now. sending a big hug 🥰

[Bigbb in reply to lou12208]

I had a Bfp.this morning over the moon thank you very much for asking xx

[lou12208 in reply to Bigbb]

Super excited for you! Congratulations 🥰

[Slowfollicles_pcos]

Congratulations 🥰

[Bigbb in reply to Slowfollicles_pcos]

Thank you 😊

[try2020]

Congratulations 🧡 😍

[Bigbb]

Thank you very much 😊

[FrancyItaly]

Lower back pain was my only symptom so please don’t give up! Hoping for a positive outcome for you! 🙏🏻🍀

[FrancyItaly]

Ohhhh glad to hear about your BFP! Back pain was a good sign!