BFN 10dp5dt FET

[London_panda123]

Oct 18 failed IUI

Feb 2020 - miscarriage at 7 weeks (natural)

Nov 20 - failed stim IUI

Jan 21 failed fresh IVF

June 21 - CP

Now - failed FET (well- 10dp5dt BFN)

We never thought we would be hit with infertility. I’m finishing it really hard.

DHs mum is terminally Ill. He’s supporting the family through that and I’m trying to support him whilst keeping myself in a good ish head space for IVF to work. I just feel like giving up. I don’t have his support as much as I’d want due to his dad.

I’m not getting any younger and feel we have to push on. And it would give us some

Happiness in these dark times after trying for so long.

It’s tough. My Inlaws are toxic. So I stay away and go round as much as my mental health allows to show them support during their hard time. I just don’t know if this will ever work for us. It’s not the life I imagined, I’m just deeply sad.

[Millbanks]

Hi lovely, I’m sorry to hear your FET failed. It’s so heartbreakingly hard. Especially with all this other stuff going on. I lost my dad in November and his funeral was the day that we found out our 4th transfer had failed. Life is hard sometimes.

But you are stronger than you know and you are still here, getting through it. That counts for a lot.

We persevered even when it was tough and transfer number 6 was our lucky one. You’ve got this xx

[London_panda123 in reply to Millbanks]

I’m sorry that happened to you. Life is hard. But thank you for replying and showing support, it means a lot when I don’t feel like I have much support out there.

[BECIO]

Hey sorry to hear what you are going through! I can understand it’s so hard! Don’t give up maybe have a break and treat yourself and spend time with good friends xxx

[London_panda123 in reply to BECIO]

Thank you. I’m thinking of giving up a job I hate just to give me a break x

[Squareark]

Sorry to hear, it must be so difficult! I hope the road will get easier for you and hubby soon.

[London_panda123 in reply to Squareark]

Thanks x