BFN 10dp5dt

[ICSIBaby86]

So my partner gave in and allowed us to test... BFN 😰 now he's had to go to work upset and I feel terrible. Why is this process so cruel. Everything went perfectly this time. What's wrong with my body 😰... we have one more Frosty left. OTD Wednesday and now we have to continue with Lubion injections. When will life give us a break ! I apologise I'm just feeling so sad for me and partner we love each other so much and it just breaks my heart seeing him so sad.

[katya38]

It could change wait till your test day and try again x

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to katya38]

I just see so many people getting their BFPS from 6-7dpt I just can't imagine it changing before Wednesday... atleast I can stop symptom checking now I was driving myself crazy ... thank you xxxxxxx

[stephanienissim in reply to ICSIBaby86]

I am new to these abrevations- what does dpt mean? Or dp or dt please xx

[Rosalietea in reply to stephanienissim]

Dpt means days post transfer and Dt means day of transfer so 10dp3dt means 10 days post a 3 day transfer x

[stephanienissim in reply to Rosalietea]

Thanks. What is there a difference between days post transfer as 10 and 3 as a s day transfer ( does the 3 daysmean how many days the embryo stayed out after fertilization or does it have anything to do with blastocyst?) xx

[Rosalietea in reply to stephanienissim]

The 3 refers to how old the embryo was when transferred back so it'll nearly always be D5 or D3 transfer. At D5 it could mean a blastocyst but that just depends on the particular embryo and how it's developed. So 10dp3dt means 10 days after a 3 day old embryo was transferred. Obviously if it's a day 3 transfer you need to wait a couple of days longer for your test day compared with a day 5 embryo x

[stephanienissim in reply to Rosalietea]

Wow thanks for the explanation, I was so confused lol. xxx

[Rosalietea in reply to stephanienissim]

It is confusing x

[Hidden]

Still a few days to go yet, try and stay positive as everyone is different it may just change yet xxx

[carrie_on in reply to Hidden]

Tell em Button! This is a team effort and I love our community. Can we all do a dinner meetup or something?!!?!?!?!?!?

[carrie_on in reply to carrie_on]

Skype session international????? This community is too good not to....

[kelsbels88]

Awww as Button says there's still time.

The 2ww is so awful I think we worry ourselves so much in that 2weeks.

Try and stay positive xx

[Cinderella5]

Don't lose hope yet! Not that I want to get your hopes up but my friend tested early on day 10 and got a negative. She did however get a positive in day 14 and her pregnancy is going great!! Hang in there now till test day!!xx

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to Cinderella5]

Thank you ... because used a clear blue which are pretty reliable I just know deep down what it's going to be... in a way I'm glad though otherwise I would have spent the next few days still symptom spotting and thinking I may be pregnant, we'l get there in the end xxxxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to ICSIBaby86]

I've still got to do my test tomorrow too which is crap as I know I'm definitely out after getting my period!! Sending you big hugs xx

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to Cinderella5]

Wishing you all the best 😘😘 it's so difficult isn't it xxx

[Cinderella5 in reply to ICSIBaby86]

Yes it is but we get there together!!xx

[carrie_on in reply to Cinderella5]

Great little piece of advice there! This is not easy. You WILL get what youre after.

[Sunbeam123]

I am so sorry to see this but as others say...try in a few more days! You never know! Big hugs x

[misswinky34]

honey there's been posts on here where ladies have had bfn right up to OTD, you've got a good chance yet!!

[stephanienissim]

So sorry- maybe just wait until the date for your test. My test is due on Wednesday. It has taken much will power in me not to test today. As based on my normal cycle, my period withoyt ivf was expected to start today. I have even put a menstrual pad in so I don't stain my knickers in case it comes unexpectedly lol. xxxx

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to stephanienissim]

Thank you ' my period was two days ago, last time I started bleeding early atleast this time I haven't ! Just hoping wel have a little miracle in the next few days !!! All the best to you to 😘😘 hang in there xxxxxxxxx

[Oakey80]

Hiya, sorry to hear this....but as the other ladies say, it could all change by your otd! Really hope u get your positive my 2ww buddy...I'll keep everything crossed xxx

[Geobygeo]

I totally understand the way you fell as I'm feeling same here. Actually on day 10p5dt and my spotting is getting darker OTD in 2 days but I'm too scared 😳 to do it I may wait for AF. I have done cheap 1£ HPT on day 8p5dt when I started spotting and BFN. I'm keeping little hope for OTD. Fingers crossed for as!!! Until I see a proper Af I won't stop hopping!

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to Geobygeo]

I haven't spotted this time last time I started bleeding but I guess I'm on progesterone injections this time so probably keeping it at bay... I hope it all goes well for you Geobygeo ❤️

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to Geobygeo]

Thought I'd mention ! My friend spotted all the way through her TWW ! And she had a BFP she's 14 weeks pregnant now xxx

[Tw1986]

Hi Hun i don't know if it's just my eyes but I can see a line!!!!!!!!

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to Tw1986]

I know I thought that too but I don't know if it's my eyes playing tricks on me, when I checked later it had gone... I'm praying for a miracle ! 4 more days to OTD xxxx

[Tw1986 in reply to ICSIBaby86]

Sorry but I just showed my sister and she said straight away she can see a line!! 👏🏻👏🏻

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to Tw1986]

Oh good lord don't say that now my neighbours will have to witness me climbing through the bins 😂 ... I did see something but it was literally so faint I thought it was my eyes... then I went back and i couldn't see it... I've been reading that Frozen embryos are sometimes slower 🤞🏼 I hope to God that's the case xxx

[kelsbels88 in reply to ICSIBaby86]

I thought I could see a line too xx 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Xx

[ICSIBaby86]

It's so hard lovely isn't it 😢 we'l get through it xxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

I can see a line too xxx

[Kattalex1]

It's so hard! Today am angry to be honest... may a stage ... but around me I see people that don't want to get pregnant but do anyways... people that say that baby came at the wrong time... sad because they cannot have a drink because they are pregnant... 😡😡😡 I feel like shouting- You don't know how lucky you are... ahhhhh am so upset for you and all here that are on this path of life... we deserve it... we really do! Should not be this hard... I hope that if indeed the result is negative on test day that you don't give up and try again... all the good things in life are worth all the sacrifices... in my head... it will be the same to me... negative... but I will not give have! I refuse to give up! 🤗 🤗 🤗

[Kattalex1]

Am just staring at your picture and the more I stare, the more I also see a line...

[ICSIBaby86 in reply to Kattalex1]

I'm too scared to think it could be a line because I've resigned myself to it not working it's such a roller coaster !! Oh tell me about it I saw a mother picking up her child from our nursery the other day... approx 8 months pregnant and chuffing on a cigarette... I seriously could have swung for her !! My tolerance level is 0 at the moment !! Xxx

[Rosalietea]

I couldn't test early as I was too frightened of getting a false result and then still having to wait u til test day to be sure. I too can see a line so hang in there. It may all be ok yet xxx

[Hidden]

Oh I can relate to that- my sister-in-law law spent her whole pregnancy smoking and I haven't spoken to her since. It is disgusting and it should be illegal- it is in Canada and women get issued fines ( my sister lives in there).

Good luck for test day I hope you get two strong lines. Think there is a faint line there xoxo

[Daxi16]

I feel like I can see a vv faint line here but I dont trust the blue tests try with a FRER keep us updated good luck xx

[Tugsgirl]

I don't want to get your hopes up but like everyone else has said, it's early days yet.. Good luck for otd xx

[romaluna2015]

I'm not sure if I see a line . If you place a ring around the test it can help the camera focus better xx

[AmyA19]

I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you get a positive on your OTD 🤞xx

[Tara123]

Can any one else see the really faint line going down or am I seeing things ? Sure looks really faint to me 😕? Sorry if I'm wrong but honest now I can see 2 lines don't give up hun look at it in the light or up against white paper and really look at it again xx

[ICSIBaby86]

Thank you I've thrown the test away. TBH I did go back and check on it and the line had gone ! I've bought two more and I'm going to do them 13dpt/14dpt I hope your all right !!! ❤️❤️❤️

[romaluna2015 in reply to ICSIBaby86]

All the best xx

[Fredaflintstone]

Good luck xxx

[carrie_on]

We're all in this together! I can't wait to use one of those soon. stay strong girlfriend!

[Amyemma]

ICSI I am currently in the same boat as you were in. What were the results, and how are you doing?

[Hidden]

Honestly, I think I see a faint line on the test, maybe wait a few days and retest... Good Luck! Xxx