10dp5dt BFN 😔

[Future1000]

Hi ladies,

So I couldn't wait till 2moro, and i tested today on clearblue digital and got not pregnant 😔 I had bad cramps and back pain this morning and felt as if AF is on the way. My blood test in on the 20th, but i know that i'm out again this time. This is my 3rd transfer and i'm really really tired. Still have 2 frozen embies, but i kind of lost hope. Sorry for the negativity, but this journey is just so difficult. Grateful for having this community and the support it provides ❤

[Hope_1234]

Im so sorry to hear this. Hopefully your test results will change. Got everything crossed for you xx

[Future1000 in reply to Hope_1234]

Thank you ❤ and congratulations on your bfp! ❤

[RhinoCat]

Awh no 😭 so sorry to hear this. Keep on your meds until the bloods just in case 🥺

[Future1000 in reply to RhinoCat]

Thank you ❤ yes i will keep taking my meds

[DianeArnold Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Hi Future. I would suggest that you keep up with any prescribed medication and retest on the day advised by your clinic. If still negative and no bleeding, ask the clinic to confirm with a blood test, just in case. Thinking of you. Diane

[Future1000 in reply to DianeArnold]

Thank you Diane ❤ Yes i will keep taking my medication until test day. Thanks for your support 🥰

[Patches86]

Sending love. BFN are so so hard to process and deal with, I’m sorry 😞

[Future1000 in reply to Patches86]

Thank you ❤ sending you lots of positive vibes as well. We are ivf warriors ☺

[XOXO13]

So sorry 💔 seeing a negative really hurts. I really hope it changes for you. After my third unsuccessful transfer, I had also lost hope. I started therapy and looked at new opinions to give myself a fresh start. I just need a refresh you know, some new hope and to get myself in a better place 💜 sending lots of love xxx

[Future1000 in reply to XOXO13]

Thanks for your kind words. The difficult thing is that hubby is away till September, i think i will take this time to recharge, do my 2nd vaccine shot, go back to my pilates classes and prepare myself for our next FET, i guess i'll ask the clinic for more investigation. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy and beautiful 9 months!! 🤞❤ Lots of love

[XOXO13 in reply to Future1000]

Taking time to recharge sounds like a wonderful thing to do. I did the same between my third and fourth transfer and mentally felt so much better. Look after yourself 💗 xx

[HaveFaith1]

I'm so so sorry 😔 Be kind to yourself xxx

[Future1000 in reply to HaveFaith1]

Thank you ❤❤

[HemBella]

Im so sorry, holding out for you that its a late implanter. Keep going until OTD.But I know how hard it is when you see a BFN. Im on 8dp5dt, also my third transfer and I'm trying desperately not to think about it...

[Future1000 in reply to HemBella]

We still keep a little bit of hope in our hearts ☺ I wish you the best and that you see a beautiful BFP very very soon 🤞❤

[SANDIEGO_Life]

I am so Sorry hear to hear this . Keep your meds on Hopefully turns out in Your Favor 🙏🏻

Did my 2nd transfer and these lowest hcg are killing me. doctor is not optimistic with the levels. Waiting on my scan next week to check for ecotopic 😔

[Future1000 in reply to SANDIEGO_Life]

I'm so sorry to hear this! Keeping my fingers crossed for you and that everything goes well next week!! ❤❤🤞🤞

[SANDIEGO_Life in reply to Future1000]

Thank you Sm and wishing the same for you 🙂 Baby Dust to Both of us🤞🏻 Did you check again ?

[Future1000 in reply to SANDIEGO_Life]

Yes i took another test yesterday morning (saturday) 11dp5dt BFN

[Hidden]

So sorry, keep your head up, have a break, regroup, stay positive, dust off and go again. You’ve got your Frosties, it’s a bloody tough journey but stay strong, we all know how hard it is but this forum is the best for support. You’ve got this, there’s no one stronger than a woman going through IVF, you’re stronger than you think xXx

[Future1000 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks for your beautiful words. I'm really blessed to have a strong support system on this forum. Lots of positive energy your way ❤

[Unicorn787]

Hiya I just wanted to say that I hope you stay strong and put the last two embryos back. I wouldn’t worry too much about testing everything. I had an aquascan to test my uterus and it was fine and ERa to test my receptivity of my endometrium and it was fine and I had 3 euploid embryos and today at 10dp5dt I got a BFN on a FRer. It is my last normal embryo to put back and we have no more money for anymore rounds. So testing more things doesn’t always bring answers just delays. I hope the last two work for you… I’ve had 7 naturally conceived miscarriages and 3 failed transfers now with overly pgt tested embryos. Hold onto hope for the last two…. Best of luck.

[Future1000 in reply to Unicorn787]

Ohhh i'm sorry for your BFN 😔 When is your OTD? Hold on to hope, what's meant to be will happen one day 🍀 I asked my doctor for more investigation and he told me he doesn't like all those tests (ERA, PGS etc...) because whatever the result in the end at my age i have 20% chance with every round. He just wants to do a laparscopy before my next FET because he suspects i have silent endometriosis. I trust my doctor and honestly the 4th round will be the last one at least for now because we can't afford any more rounds. Keeping my fingers crossed for you, and maybe taking a little break will help you relax and think of the next steps. ❤