1st BFN

So 13dp IUI transfer and I did a test today which was negative. I felt sad and disappointed. I cried and sat with those feelings for a while. I can't remember where I read or heard this, but this journey to becoming a parent is like; there's this job that you know you'd be amazing at, but nobody will give you the chance to do it or you can't get past the interview!

After a long walk I'm feeling better and focused on the next round. On a positive note, I know what to expect now so I can prepare myself for the next dreaded TWW better.

[BECIO]

Sorry to read of your BFN. It’s so hard and nothing can really prepare you I guess. That’s good you are feeling positive. Have you got another round booked? Good luck and lots of love and positive energy x

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Not called the clinic yet to give them an update and book. Decided I'll do it once aunt flow comes this weekend x

[Lovemylion]

So sorry you got a BFN hun. I think it takes a good few goes of IUI lovely. Hang in there.....it'll happen soon. Xxx

[RhinoCat]

So sorry to read your outcome 😢 hope you have good people and your fav things to get ya through this tough part . 😘💐 hugs of understanding

[xMLx]

I’m so sorry for your outcome. Just yesterday got my 1st BFN too so I can relate. The words on the job are exactly it, I’d never heard that before but it’s great way of explaining it. It’s great your keeping positive and good luck with your next tries xx

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear that Leash, it's so tough but well done on your positivity and looking to the next one. I find that I can deal with the disappointments easier when I have another cycle to focus on and hopefully the next one will be the one!

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Thanks hun. Went for a jogg today for the first time in 3 weeks and I feel great. Not as jiggly as I was yesterday 😄

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

Delighted to hear it, exercise is so great for getting out of your head. I've just started injecting again for a short cycle IVF after my IUI last month wasn't successful so maybe this time for me!

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Oooh 🤞🏾