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Miscarriage after a positive test!! Heart broken!!

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My heart is broken after seeing the positive test for the first time in my life... I am having a miscarriage now 😢

I spent last night at hospital as I was feeling awful vomited many times and bleeded, felt so dizzy and dry.

After all checks and blood test that came back negative . I was informed that I am facing a miscarriage..

We used 2 embryos and didn't work. We still have the last 2 embryos but my heart is broken after all. I stated to believe it will never work. 💔

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hifer

Oh my lovely. I’m so so sorry. I understand why you are devastated. I feel for you. The only thing I can advise/ offer is time and rest and healing. It’s such a cruel journey and sometimes we feel that every where we turn, there is heartache. Sending you much love xx

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HANAHANA in reply to hifer

Thank you dear 😔

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Aurora20

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

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HANAHANA in reply to Aurora20

♥️

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Zaazee

So sorry HanaHana, please look after yourself so you can get through this devastating experience. It’s so sad but give yourself some time to process it then you can come back with renewed hope. Being hopeful is all we’ve got on this often difficult journey. I am glad that you’ve still got 2 embryos. Sending you huge hugs xx

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HANAHANA in reply to Zaazee

I appreciate your words ♥️

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Lots8788

I'm so sorry lovely. Sending lots of love and hugs your way. Here if you want to chat. xx

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HANAHANA in reply to Lots8788

I appreciate that. Thanks a lot ♥️

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SianieShorts

I’m so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs x

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HANAHANA in reply to SianieShorts

♥️

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SPLPX

So sorry, it’s the worst thing ever. Take time to grieve and then surround yourself with all your favourite things. Take time for you xx

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HANAHANA in reply to SPLPX

I am trying to do my best 🙏🏻

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Melonay1987

So sorry to hear this Hannah, take care of yourself. Sending you lots of love xxx

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HANAHANA in reply to Melonay1987

Thanks alot ♥️

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Rain415

I have been thinking about you since your last posts. I'm so sorry to read this, take time to try and heal as much as you can then you have 2 to go back too. Sending you love x

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HANAHANA in reply to Rain415

It's been a tough time. Thank you for the positive thoughts ♥️

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Purpledoggy

I'm so sorry to hear this. It's a cruel thing to be blessed with a BFP only to have it immediately taken away from you. Take advantage of the support your clinic will offer. There is also a free miscarriage section in the Mindful IVF app if that is of any help xx

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HANAHANA in reply to Purpledoggy

Unfortunately my hospital doesn't offer any support. I wish the coming transfer will be successful 🙏🏻

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Purpledoggy in reply to HANAHANA

Wow that is tough. If you are able to find an independent counsellor it might really help to order your thoughts and find a way through the grief. Sending you many hugs xx

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Patches86

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs x

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HANAHANA in reply to Patches86

♥️

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XOXO13

I’m so sorry you’re going through this loss 💔

Having gone through a miscarriage myself, all I can say is to rest as much as you need to and take extra good care of yourself. One small step at a time. Cry, scream, shout, whatever you need to do to let it off your chest.

Sending virtual hugs 🤍 xx

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HANAHANA in reply to XOXO13

Thank you dear ♥️

Im so so sorry Lovely. Miscarriage is such a cruel thing and hearts breaking.. sending hugs.

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HANAHANA in reply to

I agree 😔Thanks ♥️

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Jam-master

So sorry to hear this, look after yourself and take it easy xxx

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HANAHANA in reply to Jam-master

Trying to do that 🙏🏻

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Egilbertpatt

Sending you lots of love. We have been in a similar situation, positive test after 3 failed transfers which ended in a miscarriage at 6 1/2 weeks, I was devastated. We then had our two remaining embryo's transferred together on the advice of the clinic and I am now 25 weeks pregnant, so although we'd given up hope to some extent as I thought we'd produced a faulty batch this little one growing inside me has proved we were wrong. Hopefully the same will happen for you with your final two embies :) For now though rest up and heal ❤️ xx

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HANAHANA in reply to Egilbertpatt

Very happy to hear your successful story ♥️Unfortunately it's not allowed in netherlands to transfer more than 1 embryo, which decrease the chances..

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Lisichka

So sorry to hear about the miscarriage! Sending you lots of hugs. Take your time to heal and try again, don't give up hope! It'll happen xx

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HANAHANA in reply to Lisichka

Finger crossed 🤞 I'm doing FET the coming cycle. Hope it will be successful 🙏🏻

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Cinderella5

I'm so sorry lovely! Absolutely heartbreaking to have your hopes raised. I had an early loss at 6 weeks and we discovered after then another loss that I wasnt absorbing progesterone very well and need my meds upped for future transfers. Might be something to check in future. Massive hugs.xx

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HANAHANA in reply to Cinderella5

Thank you for your advice.I didn't had any progesterone last transfer and I asked the doctor for that, she said they don't give that as it doesn't help or prevent the miscarriage due to some research they did ...

So, no any medication in the coming cycle as well except for the trigger shot..

No clue why they don't check anything in my transfer day as well...

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Cinderella5 in reply to HANAHANA

Im not sure if you did a natural transfer (with your own ovulation and cycle) and that's the reason the clinic didn't offer progesterone?! Also the trigger shot helps your own body to produce natural progesterone. I know some ladies have been offered progesterone if they are doing a natural transfer......could they even check your levels on transfer day for peace of mind?!xx

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HANAHANA in reply to Cinderella5

Yes it was my own ovulation.Unfortunately they don't check anything in transfer day, I already asked about that but they said no need..

It's very frustrating..

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Cinderella5 in reply to HANAHANA

Ahhh that all makes sense! Wishing you all the best in your recovery and I wish you all the best with your next transfer.xxx

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Murielsmom

I am so sorry to read this. Having been through this myself, I totally understand the heartbreak and devastation. Sending you virtual hugs and light. 💓

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HANAHANA in reply to Murielsmom

Thank you ♥️

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Sukiba

So sorry to hear this

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HANAHANA in reply to Sukiba

♥️

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Kimross1

Oh no! I’m so sorry to read this my thoughts are with you and your partner. It’s so hard to go through his journey for it to end like this. But as you said you have 2 left and you can try again! Don’t give up hunn ❤️ Much love xx

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HANAHANA in reply to Kimross1

I am trying my best. Thank you ♥️

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IVFat40

I'm so sorry for your pain and loss, so heartbreaking

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HANAHANA in reply to IVFat40

♥️

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Jldurham73

I am so sorry to see this! Please take care of yourself. I know this is heartbreaking for you. Take time to heal and mourn your loss and hopefully next time will be a better outcome. Hang in there!

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HANAHANA in reply to Jldurham73

Appreciate that ♥️

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ashbb

😔😔😔 So sorry. I can imagine the heart ache you're feeling ❤️

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HANAHANA in reply to ashbb

♥️

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Babywaiting

So sorry for your loss. It really is a rolleroaster of a journey ivf. Emotionally so tough. Take the time to heal and do some nice things for yourself and your partner so you have the strength to try again. You have two embryos waiting for you. Xxx

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HANAHANA in reply to Babywaiting

Thank you dear ♥️

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Pink5678

Oh hun, my heart goes out to you xxx

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