Oh my lovely. I’m so so sorry. I understand why you are devastated. I feel for you. The only thing I can advise/ offer is time and rest and healing. It’s such a cruel journey and sometimes we feel that every where we turn, there is heartache. Sending you much love xx
So sorry HanaHana, please look after yourself so you can get through this devastating experience. It’s so sad but give yourself some time to process it then you can come back with renewed hope. Being hopeful is all we’ve got on this often difficult journey. I am glad that you’ve still got 2 embryos. Sending you huge hugs xx
I have been thinking about you since your last posts. I'm so sorry to read this, take time to try and heal as much as you can then you have 2 to go back too. Sending you love x
I'm so sorry to hear this. It's a cruel thing to be blessed with a BFP only to have it immediately taken away from you. Take advantage of the support your clinic will offer. There is also a free miscarriage section in the Mindful IVF app if that is of any help xx
Wow that is tough. If you are able to find an independent counsellor it might really help to order your thoughts and find a way through the grief. Sending you many hugs xx
Having gone through a miscarriage myself, all I can say is to rest as much as you need to and take extra good care of yourself. One small step at a time. Cry, scream, shout, whatever you need to do to let it off your chest.
Sending you lots of love. We have been in a similar situation, positive test after 3 failed transfers which ended in a miscarriage at 6 1/2 weeks, I was devastated. We then had our two remaining embryo's transferred together on the advice of the clinic and I am now 25 weeks pregnant, so although we'd given up hope to some extent as I thought we'd produced a faulty batch this little one growing inside me has proved we were wrong. Hopefully the same will happen for you with your final two embies For now though rest up and heal ❤️ xx
I'm so sorry lovely! Absolutely heartbreaking to have your hopes raised. I had an early loss at 6 weeks and we discovered after then another loss that I wasnt absorbing progesterone very well and need my meds upped for future transfers. Might be something to check in future. Massive hugs.xx
Thank you for your advice.I didn't had any progesterone last transfer and I asked the doctor for that, she said they don't give that as it doesn't help or prevent the miscarriage due to some research they did ...
So, no any medication in the coming cycle as well except for the trigger shot..
No clue why they don't check anything in my transfer day as well...
Im not sure if you did a natural transfer (with your own ovulation and cycle) and that's the reason the clinic didn't offer progesterone?! Also the trigger shot helps your own body to produce natural progesterone. I know some ladies have been offered progesterone if they are doing a natural transfer......could they even check your levels on transfer day for peace of mind?!xx
I am so sorry to read this. Having been through this myself, I totally understand the heartbreak and devastation. Sending you virtual hugs and light. 💓
Oh no! I’m so sorry to read this my thoughts are with you and your partner. It’s so hard to go through his journey for it to end like this. But as you said you have 2 left and you can try again! Don’t give up hunn ❤️ Much love xx
I am so sorry to see this! Please take care of yourself. I know this is heartbreaking for you. Take time to heal and mourn your loss and hopefully next time will be a better outcome. Hang in there!
So sorry for your loss. It really is a rolleroaster of a journey ivf. Emotionally so tough. Take the time to heal and do some nice things for yourself and your partner so you have the strength to try again. You have two embryos waiting for you. Xxx
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