I am 9 days post 5 days FET of a PGS grade AA embryo, and did a home pregnancy test that gave me a BFN, should I still hope? Help please!

[AnaJohnson]

I am trying not to cry my eyes out right now. I have been scare because for the past few days I had no major symptom. I had cramps on day 1 to 5. Then nothing expects a few tingles here and there. My blood exam is on 12/29. I wish I had not done the home pregnancy test. I am crushed. My hopes are super low now. This would be my second failure and my last embryo. I am so confused as I did everything right! We even did a hysteroscopy and ERA! Did fertility accupunture too. The embryo was grade AA. I am 36 years old, so maybe it is age? So, not sure what to think. Why it did not worked? And as anyone gotten a BFP after a home BFN? Can someone please share their experiences? Thank you!

[BabydustTSH]

Hi love. I am on the similar band vagon here too., did the home preggo test on the day 10 after ET.... After a painfull ages spinning time icon not pregnant appeared. I even said to my hubby I should have prob wee on it not stick it to the plastic cup for 8 seconds or hovever long. 😅Its hard. But at least I have 1 miracle sl ready asleep right now in her room - 11 months old girl 💓. So maybe luck only stroke once.... I am 40.

And egg was grade B

[Eggbabe]

Hi there,It’s an awful feeling. I got my BFN on weds day 9 post 5 day transfer. I did a home test that morning and it was negative and then a blood test later confirmed the negative. I was also feeling confused as to why?! But My nurse said even though it was a ‘normal’ embryo in a good uterus it’s still a lottery. She said sometimes pregnancy just doesn’t happen. There are a million reasons why. Very sad I know. It hurts. I feel for you. xx

[Faith1214]

Hi, cross fingers don’t loose hope! Wait for few days to check again and your blood test. Did your doctor offered Receptiva test? It’s a test that detects inflammation endometritis, endometriosis, and hydrosalphinx. These could potentially affect FET implantation even if you have AA grade embryo. Did you also do the PGT testing? I would suggest to also ask your RE to do HSG & check your immunity like natural killer cells in the future before FET.

Keep on fighting and don’t loose hope! You’re strong 💪. Sending love and positive vibes!

[AnaJohnson in reply to Faith1214]

Hi! I did the ERA, and hysteroscopy. They adjusted my cycle based on my ERA results. I have not done the immunity check . The embryo was PGT tested and came normal. The only think that comes to my mind is the immunity issue because we covered everything else. I am just sad and confuse, and angry.

[Wosie]

Same boat - I had transfer 10 days ago and negative test this morning! Got bloods on 31st but am thinking what’s the point! Already paid for unfortunately x

[AnaJohnson in reply to Wosie]

My result came negative as expected! I am so discourage!

[Wosie in reply to AnaJohnson]

I’ve actually had 2 positive tests now in the mean time! But negative this morning again! Like you I had bloods today. I do feel very uncomfortable around my boobs stomach and lower area and my sense of smell is very strong- but only the blood test will tell me. I’m 13 days after transfer now- good luck today.

[Sparklylife in reply to Wosie]

Good luck to you both 🤞

[Wosie in reply to Sparklylife]

Thank you x

[Hidden]

Goodluck with your beta today!! fingers crossed for you😘🤍

[AnaJohnson in reply to Hidden]

It came negative ! I am super hopeless

[Sparklylife in reply to AnaJohnson]

Oh lovely, didn’t see this before I posted, I am sorry 😔

[AnaJohnson in reply to Sparklylife]

Thats ok. I was expecting it. I am dissapointed but my husband asked me not to be discourage. He wants us to keep trying.?

[Wosie in reply to AnaJohnson]

So sorry x will you try again soon? I had ivf in Cyprus so I will have to wait for boarders to reopen but that’s ok as need to save!!! Good luck on your future journey xx

[AnaJohnson in reply to Wosie]

My husband wants us to keep trying. I want to but I am scare of another failure. Not sure how much more I can handle emotionally.

[Hidden]

Oh no love, I am so sorry to hear about the outcome of this result. Don’t loose hope. sometimes we need a few tries to get our miracle. Goodluck on your future cycle.🤍😘

[AnaJohnson in reply to Hidden]

Thats what my doctor say. My husband is super supportive and he wants us to try again. It is just hard for me to keep my hopes and spirit high!