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What is my next option and hope on having a child?

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I am a single, 44year old woman who lost a baby boy to still birth at 6 months pregnancy about 6 years ago. He stopped growing at my 5 month pregnancy ultrasound and the amniotic fluid stated decreasing. I want a child but having a hard time finding someone to have a baby with. I am taking 10mg Lexapro for depression and anxiety and wondering if that could be causing my loss of sex drive and not getting pregnant?

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Lovemylion

So sorry to hear of you losing your baby boy at such a late stage of your pregnancy. I can't imagine your pain. Correct me if I'm wrong but from reading the above I assume you are not with someone? Have you considered donor sperm? If you contact a couple of fertility clinics they will be able to advise you on your next steps. I personally wouldn't wait to find someone if a baby is what u really want and go down the donor route. There are a few ladies on here that have been successful with this. Good luck 🤞 xxx

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Jordanzmom3 in reply to Lovemylion

Hello Lovemylion,

Yes I actually did 2 rounds of IUI (Intrauterine Incretion) but it didn't take. I have one more round that I can do, but I'm so scared that it wont work.

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Lovemylion in reply to Jordanzmom3

Have u looked at IVF as the success rates are higher than with IUI. I understand that's not a cheap option.....However it only takes one and next time you might be third time lucky with your IUI.

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ChloeDE

You could do embryo adoption, if it's something you're interested in. We did donor eggs in Czech Republic but a lot of people go for a 'ready made' embryo made using donor sperm and egg.

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