Is there any hope

[albbbxo]

So I test early I’m 11dp5dt and I got a BFN😭 is there any hope of this changing by the time my official OTD is here on Wednesday

Feeling so deflated and that the same thing is going to happen like last time 💔

[Goldie24]

Haven’t got that far yet but wanted to send massive hugs - I tested early at 6 and 7 days and they were negative and it’s absolutely broken me the last two days so I have some idea of how you must be feeling ❤️ What brand of test did you use? Some are much less sensitive than others. I’ve read lots of posts that say it’s not over til OTD and to always have hope until then so I have my fingers crossed for you xx

[albbbxo in reply to Goldie24]

Aww thank you, it’s really difficult isn’t it? I just end up blaming myself and think it’s me.. and I’m just like why?? I used first response and I got the ones that say you can test up to 6 days before a missed period. It’s really hard to have any sort of hope for OTD when you get a negative isn’t it. Hopefully we both get are BFP soon. 💜💜

[Goldie24 in reply to albbbxo]

I used first response too. I genuinely expected to have a very faint line as everything finally looked like it was leaning in our favour. I’m too scared to test again until OTD. I hope things change for both of us x

[albbbxo in reply to Goldie24]

Me too, I felt the transfer this time went a bit better although it did take them a while to insert the catheter, but I could really see the embryo go in. I’m gonna be really nervous to test on OTD but I guess if it’s still a BFN I’ll enjoy Christmas and get myself ready to go again. I hope so to Goldie I’ll have everything crossed for you lovely💜

[Hidden]

My OTD is 11dp5dt but I tested today at 9dp and negative. I only tested today as I got a BFP with my little girl so I’m not very positive for test day x

[albbbxo in reply to Hidden]

Aww I’m sorry, I know I tested positive on my last round but it end in a cp I don’t feel very hopeful for Wednesday but we will see x

[Hidden in reply to albbbxo]

It’s just rubbish isn’t it 🙁 xx

[albbbxo in reply to Hidden]

It really is😣xx

[Gueritarubia]

Also tested today at 11dp5dFET. Negative as hell. OTD with beta is Tuesday but counting myself out. With our little girl I had a crazy strong positive at 9 days...

Really feeling your pain... and sharing in it. Damn this journey is so tough! Big hugs

[albbbxo in reply to Gueritarubia]

I’m the same, I’m not holding out much luck for Wednesday. It really is horrible isn’t. Sending lots of hugs cx

[Ivf2020A]

Sorry to hear that hun x with my clinic for frozen its 11 days to test at hmp x so im not sure how it works as its my first frozen just wanted to say big hugs to u whatever the outcome x

[albbbxo in reply to Ivf2020A]

Thank you 💜💜

[44_andstillpraying]

I hope your test changed for you 😢 I tested 8DP5DT as my last FET which was a blighted ovum a few years ago, I got a BFP at 3DP5DT which is crazy really so I was impressed I waited until 8. Yesterday and today still BFN, and tomorrow is my OTD @ 11DP and I’ve stopped medication tonight as what’s the point. The only thing I don’t understand is that my boobs were sore after the first few days of cyclogest and then absolutely nothing until yesterday and they got really sore again so I just don’t get it.

I know there’s a tiny tiny amount of women that get a BFP on or after their OTD but I won’t be one of them I’m sure.

On top of having to deal with a BFN we then have to deal with a period on top 🙄 this TTC & IVF train is so difficult xx

[albbbxo in reply to 44_andstillpraying]

It’s so hard isn’t. I was the same with my first transfer I had symptoms but it ended in a cp. this time I didn’t feel any different and I kinda thought that it would be bfn. We’ll see what happened Wednesday I’m still hoping it changes but I doubt it.

It really is one hell of a journey! And people who don’t have to go through this have no idea.

Sending lots of hugs x

[44_andstillpraying in reply to albbbxo]

Thank you hun yes it really is. I’ve read of sooo many women not getting symptoms when they actually were pregnant and the cycle they got a BFN they had symptoms but I guess you never know. We are going to try again but we now need to get the money together.

Keep us posted how you get on and good luck xx

[albbbxo in reply to 44_andstillpraying]

I know me too, and then you cling on the hope, and it’s even more devastating when you get another bfn when you already seen it coming. We’re going to try again won’t be until next year now though let’s enjoy Christmas and get ourselves in the best shape we can.

I will do lovely you too💜💜

[44_andstillpraying in reply to albbbxo]

Completely agree 😍 I think our embryo tried and failed to implant properly - again. Yesterday I tested and it was 100% blank on the test line. I happened to look at that test again this morning and there's an extremely faint line there but you can see it. My understanding of FRER tests is that they done have evap lines? No sign of period either or any type of period pain and whilst that’s true I don’t for one minute think a pregnancy will occur from this but it’s now made me wonder if it did partly implant. I’m having a cramping pain in exactly the same spot since yesterday which is strange and it’s over to the right slightly more than central 🤦🏼‍♀️ Xx

Can we upload images on here? XX

[albbbxo in reply to 44_andstillpraying]

I’d maybe just test again tomorrow morning and see if there’s any line.. sometimes they say not to read tests after a certain amount of time incase it’s a false reading. But I’ll have everything crossed for you! I’m not sure if you can add pictures on like peoples posts or not xx

[44_andstillpraying in reply to albbbxo]

Yeah they do say that. We all do though 😂 clinic has told me to stay on drugs until they let me know otherwise and told me to do a clear blue digi tomorrow which will definitely be negative xx

[albbbxo in reply to 44_andstillpraying]

I know it’s so hard isn’t it! Yeah it’s always best to carry on taking them until we’re told to stop! Let me know how you get on tomorrow 💜💜

[44_andstillpraying in reply to albbbxo]

Will do 😘 god I hate doing the clear blue digital as I think it’s more of a slap in the face when is says NOT PREGNANT rather than one line lol. When are you going to test again? 🙏🏼 xxx

[albbbxo in reply to 44_andstillpraying]

Same!! I did one of those last time. I think going forward I’ll probably just use first response 🤦🏼‍♀️. I’ll text again Wednesday my official OTD. But I know my clinic get you to carry on for two more days after a negative and retest and then if that’s still negative then they get you to stop the meds so by the weekend should know for sure xxx

[44_andstillpraying in reply to albbbxo]

Fingers crossed for you xx

[SuzyL123]

Morning girls, I tested myself on Saturday which was 10dp5dt and it was a BFN , I’ve just tested myself this morning as I wanted to stop the meds as they were making me feel unwell and I’ve actually got a BFP!!! Don’t lose hope until the last test day!🤞🏼Xx

[albbbxo in reply to SuzyL123]

Aww congratulations!!! I’ll hold out till tomorrow my OTD and I’ll see if it changes🤞🏼💜💜

[ashalez in reply to albbbxo]

It will change don't worry,good luck 😘😘😘😘

[ashalez in reply to SuzyL123]

So happy for you, Congratulations I hope you continue healthy and happy pregnancie 🤰🤰🤰😘