BFN 6d5pt - is there any hope?

[Dinobaby05]

After saying I wouldn’t test, I caved today as I really thought recent symptoms (cramping, pain in pelvis, headaches etc) would mean I would see even a faint line but it couldn’t have been more of a BFN!! I know people will say it’s too early to test but is that just false hope and what we say to people to make them feel better or can a BFN actually change to a BFP? I don’t think I’ve ever felt more disappointed/sad/frustrated in my life and this was only our first FET. How do you keep going if it is all over?

[DG2022]

that is very early to get a positive. FETS tend to implant later too. I didn’t test until test day this time. The last time I got an okay line at 9 days past but then got lighter by test day so knew was a chemical x

[Keepingfaith85]

Oh bless you it’s so hard not to test but that is quite early to get a BFP. If it makes you feel any better I caved on 4dp after falling down a rabbit hole of reading about people testing and getting early BFPs and convincing myself I wouldn’t mind if it was negative because I’d know it was too early 🤣😂 cue instant regret. I think you need to wait until at least day 8, first morning urine and an early detection pregnancy test. I’m waiting until day 10 now although not feeling super hopeful xx

[Becem92]

I tested 6dp5dt and then 9dp5dt, cried my eyes out and thought it was all over. I had to have bloods done by my clinic 12dp5dt and I had even had a bleed in between, the nurse congratulated me on my pregnancy!!!

I had to pick my jaw up of the floor I was SO shocked. Your not out until your out. Good luck xx

[Dinobaby05 in reply to Becem92]

Hi Becem92. Just wondering how you are doing? I tested today 13dp5dt and it’s still neg. My OTD is Friday so I will still take your advice but hope is twindling. When did you show on a pregnancy test? Xx

[Becem92 in reply to Dinobaby05]

So my OTD was 12dpt and that was a blood drawer. When they called me and told me it was positive I got a clear BFP that night on. FRER, but 9dpt it was a stark negative so I can’t say when it would have shown.

Unfortunately it turned out to be ectopic and I am currently at home recovering from surgery.

Lots of baby dust to you 🤞🏼

[Dinobaby05 in reply to Becem92]

I’m so so sorry to hear that. That’s so tough. Sending you lots of baby dust too. ❤️

[Twiglet2]

if you want an honest answer it has never turned around for me from day 6 if it’s negative it stayed negative (first morning urine on a FRER) and I have had positives that early BUT it absolutely did for my friend a few months ago and they are now over the 20 week mark! So if I were in your shoes I would be preparing myself for it not working but hanging on to that hope that it absolutely can turn around and has for others in the past. Good luck 🤞🏽 xxx

[Dinobaby05]

Thanks everyone. Have prepared myself for the worst but won’t give up all hope just yet. Will test again in a few days and update. Thanks again xx

[JA-fnuk Partner Nurse Fertility Network UK]

Best wait for OTD so try to stop testing - hard to do but do try Eat well- rest when you can - drink plenty of fluids and keep yourself busy Take any meds you were given as directed

Good luck for the future

Janet-Partner

[Fertile11]

I tested 6dp5dt fresh transfer and it was BFN. I didn’t test again till day 9 and it was BFP. My OTD is on Saturday 2nd. I have been testing every other day and it has remained positive. Hang in there.

[Dinobaby05 in reply to Fertile11]

Thank you! That’s given me some hope! 🤞🏻

[Nabsal in reply to Fertile11]

What is update dear

[Dinobaby05 in reply to Nabsal]

Still negative 😩

[Nabsal]

how many days now