Pregnancy after loss.

[affecting_meg]

Me again.

I just want to know ways you guys have coped with a pregnancy following a loss - however your loss sadly occured.

Little mottos, quotes, things you told yourself. Just want a little pick me up to help me and maybe others struggling with this?

Have a good Sunday. 💛

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Hi hun sorry for your loss, i know exactly how you feel i learned to tell myself "im pregnant today" each and everyday took each day as it came and milestones helped first scan second scan dating scans further and further on i got the less the anxiety I would get, although it never completely went!! Wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy. 😘💗

[affecting_meg in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Thank you. I'm trying to just take each day as it goes. I'm 5 weeks, 2 days today and feeling so anxious about the next few weeks. Hopefully I will be having a 6 week scan very soon and I'll just have to take it from there. I know the anxiety won't leave until I have a healthy baby in my arms. It's so awful. I like the idea of taking each day as it comes though. It's just very hard to get properly excited about it.

Thank you for the well wishes ✨

[Cinderella5]

Hey, I dont really have a moto. I just concentrated on getting through each day....which I know sounds terrible but my nerves were really bad. I also keep telling myself that every BFP is different so this will be better. All I can say is hang on in there and we're here if you need us!xx

[affecting_meg in reply to Cinderella5]

Mine nerves are bad too. Then I'm thinking 'I shouldn't be like this surely it's not good for the baby'. Endless anxiety cycle. I know I'm not alone in feeling like this, just wanted to see how others coped with similar feelings. I have been trying to tell myself that every pregnancy will be different and this isn't the same but it's so hard not to think that way isn't it? Thank you Cinderella x

[Cinderella5 in reply to affecting_meg]

Its is difficult but every day on is always a good thing. Not sure if it's as much cope but drag ourselves through these difficult early stages!!😂🙈xx