Had my double embryo transfer today !!! Bring on the impatient 2WW ,,, I got this 💪🏻🤞🏻

[Blue1978]

It’s my first transfer and gosh was I emotional watching the whole procedure, it was an amazing experience,,,,,, So at the moment I’m officially pregnant 🤰🙌🏻. Finally got there, buns in the oven, fingers crossed they cook 🤞🏻🤞🏻💟💟 Got to stay positive with my 28% chance 😊,,,,, OTD is Friday the 13th 🤣🤣🤣 No chance that’s happening ,,,, so Saturday it is then 😁 Xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Wishing you all the baby dust in the world. You've got this 😘💗

[Blue1978 in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Thank you 😊 allweneedisluv indeed 🥰 Xx

[Nicki89]

Fingers crossed for you🤞 I have my transfer on Tuesday so I’m not far behind you. Keep us updated on how you get on xx

[Blue1978 in reply to Nicki89]

Yayyy a 2ww buddy xx Good luck for Tuesday and hope alls go well 😊 look forward to hearing your update too Xx PMA every day 🤗

[Sas1101]

Amazing! I've been awaiting your update. I have all my finders and toes crossed for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

[Blue1978]

Thank you sas1101 🤗 How far into you FET are you now? I look forward to hearing from you xx

[Sas1101 in reply to Blue1978]

I'm booked in for transfer on the 5th 🤞🏻 hoping to have two buns in the oven too. I'll await your update. Best of luck 🤞🏻 xx

[Mrs14]

Oh gosh my OTD is Friday the 13th too!!! 🤣😩 Like you I will definitely not be testing that day lol ... Or maybe it could be a good omen 🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

Either way, good luck hun! How are you feeling today? 😊 xxx

[lou12208]

Good luck ladies lll be thinking of you in the 2ww. I had my transfer Monday so want to test now knowing its too early. Test date 7th Nov. i can wait 🤦🏻‍♀️ trying to convince myself xxx

[Blue1978]

Hey that’s awesome. Yes I was on the mode of maybe it’s a good omen but nope still not going to do it then 🤣

I’m doing ok a bit sore and I struggle to rest as I’m always on the go, straightening out the dishwasher with an ice skate leg out pose to stop me bending over was ,,,, interesting ,,,,, and my other half was not impressed I was messing with his loading skills but more so I was not resting lol,,,,, when was your transfer and how are you doing ? I’m so pleased to talk with someone on the same page x

[Mrs14 in reply to Blue1978]

Hahaha no I don’t think I will either 🤣

I know, I’m exactly the same! Im doing ok... I won’t deny I have just come back from a very light short walk - I was starting to get bored / thoughts creeping in and just felt like I needed some fresh air 🤦🏻‍♀️😬 (My transfer was at 1:30 😊 yesterday)...

Glad you are doing ok! Lol the arabesque comment cracked me up as this was literally me last night too 🤣

Have you got much planned over the next 2 weeks? Is this your first transfer? 🤞xxxx

[Blue1978 in reply to Mrs14]

Ahhh mine was at 1pm yesterday x I went for a short walk last night and got halfway round the block realising this is not the best of ideas I’ve had but slowly walked back home safely x

I go back to work on Wednesday so I’m just relaxing with the family, ,,,, I’ve just had a call off my partner and he’s broke down so the AA is on its way,,,,, I said I’d pick him up but he doesn’t want to cause any stress on me ,,,,, lol 😂 it’s so typical but also quite funny we’re both laughing still anyway x

How about yourself? X

[Mrs14 in reply to Blue1978]

Oh goodness! Did you manage to get it all sorted ok?! At least you could both see the funny side of it 🤣 It’s the weather to be broken down at the moment either 😩

Ahhh ok, that sounds nice! My OH is in football so I’m not relatively close to my family but I have some friends who know who are coming over today to keep me occupied lol and then back to work “from home” on Monday...So will just make sure to get some walks in through the day etc! Other than that nothing exciting lol... I can’t believe it’s only Saturday and still have such a long time to wait 🤦🏻‍♀️ Do you think you will test early? Xxx

[Blue1978 in reply to Mrs14]

Sounds good seeing some friends and going for walks, working from home too is perfect for you right now I unfortunately commute hence me postponing it til Wednesday as I’ll get a couple of peace and quite days in before I go back. The car has got to be sent to the manufactures as it’s a fault our little garage can’t fix 😔 It’s my OH livelihood as well so looks like he’s got time off with me now too (which is nice but also a bit of a financial strain , as we’re both self employed) ,,,, anyway the situation is and nothing can change so hey ho I’ve got a list of diy jobs at the ready for him 😁. Time is going slowly so I guess we should prepare for it to slow down some more as we progress to OTD, I’m tempted to test Sunday 8th but I’m going to TRY 🤨and go as long as possible to avoid a false reading, I’m not sure how that’s going to pan out though, how about you? Xx

[Mrs14 in reply to Blue1978]

Hey, how are you you doing? 😊 Hope weekend has been good and managed to stay occupied?

Mines been pretty long but nice! The symptom spotting is most definitely a thing now though and I won’t lie, I don’t “feel” anything which slightly frustrating but trying to remain hopeful! 🙏

Yes I will probably test around a similar time - I did when I got my BFP back in Feb (my first round but resulted in MMC) and also did my second round. I find personally it puts me out my misery if BPF and incase it’s negative, I know to expect the worse. Then if on OTD, if anything changes great lol but if not, at least I’m not shocked 🤷🏻‍♀️ Everyone’s different of course though!

I think going back to work will be good for us definitely to keep our sanity! 😊 Xxx

[Blue1978 in reply to Mrs14]

Hi , yes I’m doing good thank you. Bless you you’ve been through this a fair few times but each cycle gets you closer to a bfp. We’re all different and so what I’ve read about early pregnancy signs doesn’t apply to all, a lot of women have nothing at all and the spotting is a sign too so yes definitely stay positive 😊Xx

My weekend was busy as I had my eldest son over to stay with his partner (he’s 22 ) ,,,, I struggle to rest and potter around the house ,,,,, we did go for a little walk and I had a mooch around the shops looking for comfy pjs, as I’m so bloated it’s extremely uncomfortable 😣, I was exhausted when I got back though, pushed myself too much as per usual. Yes going back to work will be a good distraction. Staying positive and riding the wave is all we can do right now xx sending lots of positive vibes your way xx

[Klsb2110]

Congrats Blue!! You say has finally come!! Can’t wait to hear your results in the upcoming days. Wishing you the best.

[Blue1978 in reply to Klsb2110]

Thank you Klsb2110 not long for you now xx

[Aquarius_hope]

Aww, congratulations!! That’s so exciting!! Wishing you lots of luck xx

I’m currently in the 2WW too... and keeping all my fingers and toes firmly crossed! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

It’s such an exciting and nerve wracking time!! 😘😘

[Blue1978 in reply to Aquarius_hope]

Thank you Aquarius_hope,,,,, ahhh bless you how long left? Wishing you all the baby dust luck in the world 🌍✨✨🌈x

[Aquarius_hope in reply to Blue1978]

Aww, thank you Blue1978!! 🤗 We do our pregnancy test on Wednesday.... so only 4 days to go!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

The other ladies did make me giggle though ... our boys try to help us out, but they can’t do things to our standard, so we are always sneaking in and fixing things!! 😝 (I’m forever rearranging the dishwasher too! Hehe!)

Big hugs and lots of baby dust luck too 😘😘 xx

[Blue1978 in reply to Aquarius_hope]

Eeekkk how exciting not long now then, is that your OTD if so are you tempted to test early? Xx

Yes I also have boys who have dishwasher duties to help out hence me rearranging it in a crazy sideways move fashion , but they don’t know I’m having ivf so they just possibly think I’m being a lazy momma these past few days, making the most of my holidays and going into some form of midlife crisis in my pjs all day binge watching Netflix surrounded by snacks. It’s actually quite nice to do what they do for a change 🤣xx

[Aquarius_hope in reply to Blue1978]

Hehe... enjoy your time on the sofa whilst you can!! ☺️ Very cute that all your boys are helping you out xx

I’m not tempted to test early because the result may not be accurate so I will be even more stressed out waiting to re-test on Wednesday! 😳 I’m just trying to relax and make the most of this time off until the big day ☺️☺️xx

[Blue1978 in reply to Aquarius_hope]

Big hugs and baby dust back at you too lovely xx I look forward to hearing on your updates 💟🌈🤞🏻💪🏻Xx

[Aquarius_hope in reply to Blue1978]

Thank you so much 🤗🤗

[Reuben-ling]

Good luck sweets... our TWW started yesterday so not far behind you. Sending much love and baby dust your way x

[Blue1978]

Thank you lovely and congratulations Reuben-ling may the TWW be a swift one. How are you feeling? Xx

[Reuben-ling in reply to Blue1978]

Thank you. Feeling a lot better this time round than with the first transfer, hopefully the positivity stays! Really don’t want that anxiety to kick in. Hope you’re doing ok xxx

[Blue1978 in reply to Reuben-ling]

That’s good to hear x We got this,,,,, 💪🏻🤞🏻🤰✨xx Positive vibes xx

[try2020]

Hi Blue, fingers crossed you get a positive result! I was just wondering if you did PGS testing on your embryos? Best of luck!

[Blue1978 in reply to try2020]

Hi try2020, no i didn’t do PGS testing leaving nature to do it’s thing 🤞🏻Xx

[try2020 in reply to Blue1978]

Thanks Blue! It is interesting, the forums with ladies in the states all seem to do it, but here it is more of a mixture of those that do and don't. Once again, good luck xx

[Blue1978 in reply to try2020]

Yes I’ve noticed that but it’s also a financial factor too xx Hows you feeling? Xx

[try2020 in reply to Blue1978]

Hey thanks for asking 🧡 I am ok, just trying to navigate all the million options and keep going around in circles... very good point about the money aspect! IVF is a crazy thing, I hope it works out for both of us 🤞 x

[Blue1978 in reply to try2020]

Yes lots to digest and think over but also remember it’s your journey and so go with your gut instinct there’s no right or wrong it’s what you think is best when contemplating the extras 😊 So good luck on your ivf journey lovely no one can prepare you for it’s mental and physical strains but always remain positive throughout with a will to succeed Xx That’s the best advice I can give, I’m yet to have my BFP or BFN but prepared either way with no regrets Xx

[JenniferKimberley]

Same test date too!! Also had 2 put back!!

Fingers crossed Friday 13th is lucky for us both! 🤞❤️

[Blue1978 in reply to JenniferKimberley]

Ahhhh that’s fab, sending you all the best wishes and baby dust your way lovely fingers crossed indeed ☺️🤞🏻🤞🏻Xx I look forward to your updates Xx

[kc21]

How you feeling today .. feeling like it’s not worked ! So down .. still gonna hold out until Friday. Had back pain like my period wants to come ! Holding off testing still though

[Blue1978 in reply to kc21]

Feeling a lot of abdominal pain and I bled during the night then nothing then cramping and bleeding again this evening, it’s so scary but remaining positive. ,,,,, Don’t day that or underestimate your WILL Power kc21 you got this so remain positive 💪🏻👊🏻,,,,, I had back pain today too, Don’t forget so many women feel nothing at all and still have a positive,,,, I’m so glad you’ve held back from testing, it’s so tempting I know but also could burst your bubble unnecessarily, just think you could end up buying test after test after test until you see anything and think of all that stress it would cause you 😢 I’m scared everytime I go to the toilet thinking it’s a period and my OH is keeping me sane saying it it what it is and so relax and just let the stress go ,,,,,,, You’ve got this lovely 😊 xx

[kc21 in reply to Blue1978]

Ah thanks .. no not gonna test yet .. I have no tests anyway ! Didn’t trust myself will buy Friday ! Did you have red blood ? I have cramps and back pain but I always think progesterone !!

[Blue1978 in reply to kc21]

Yes it’s red 🤷‍♀️ Good luck for Friday x

[Blue1978 in reply to kc21]

Do you think red blood is something to be concerned about ?

[kc21 in reply to Blue1978]

Not sure .. are you on progesterone ? Xxx

[Blue1978 in reply to kc21]

Yes, I’m not reading into it tbh as it is what it is and will be what will be and don’t need any added worry on this crazy journey so just going with it 😉

[jengi]

Best of luck lovely Xx

[Blue1978 in reply to jengi]

Thank you Jengi all the best on your journey too xx

[Sammy246]

Good luck and baby dust to you 😊🤞🙏xx

[Blue1978 in reply to Sammy246]

Thank you Sammy246 and same back to you wherever you are on this journey xx

[Hopefulfor2021]

I’m so happy for you. I wish you all the baby dust...I am starting my FET soon with A 5AA female and a 5BB male both PGS tested. I’m so nervous because of my age. 😩

[Peanutchips in reply to Hopefulfor2021]

Hey lovely, this post is a few months old and unfortunately she didn’t get a positive. You can go onto people’s profiles to see their most recent posts. Best of luck with your transfer. They sound like great embryos! Xxx