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My journey at an end

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Had the call this morning none of my embryos made it to blastocyst stage 😩😩 I’m heartbroken disappointed and feel I can’t go on like this no more ☹️ I’ve aged 10 years in the last 2 months I’ve put everything in to this cycle to get nothing out of it apart from heart ache x.

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hifer

Oh hun. I'm so sorry to hear this. Getting any call from an embryologist is stressful enough. Don't give up just yet though. You may decide eventually that you don't wish to continue but my advice would be not to make any decisions just at the moment. You are understandably very upset and need a bit of time to process. I totally understand the stress and heart ache believe me (as do the vast majority of people on here I should think) so we are all totally with you and support you. xx

Hey lovely. So extremely sorry. My heart breaks for you. Life is cruel at this point but like you said you gave your best so please be kind to your self. Sending many many hugs πŸ’

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Maisie234

I've had that call too and I really hit a low, I couldn't believe all my hard work and energy was for nothing. I know exactly how you feel and how it changes you as a person.

I said I didn't want to go through it again. 4 months later I tried again. You might change your mind in a bit, the thing is not to put yourself into a decision making place right now. Thinking of you xx

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IVFat40

I'm so so sorry this happened, how absolutely heartbreaking.

In my first round of IVF I only had one make it to blastocyst and that was touch and go. I just wanted to say in my experience rounds of IVF can be vastly different, even with a tough start you may go on to have much more success in future cycles. That said I totally understand you may feel you can't continue to put yourself through it, or may not be able to.

Wishing you all the very best whichever path you take.

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RhinoCat

Oh no 😣😒😭 I’m

So sorry for your pain . Sending hugs πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“ hopefully you’re clinic can suggest something/anything πŸ’“πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“πŸ’“

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