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Second round and it’s a BFN.

Don’t really know what to do with myself right now.

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Oh honey, it sucks. Its so sad and I can imagine how you’re feeling. I think the best thing to do is allow yourself to wallow for now (as u know I do) and trust science... if this embie didn’t make it this far it still isn’t the strong one that would be ready to go 100%. With every cycle your body is stronger (even if your mind doesn’t feel it) and your doctor knows more about you, so the treatment will be better. I’m here if u need to talk xx

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Mara84

sorry dear,I know how you feel..... today is my OTD and unfortunately our positive pregnancy test turns into negative... xx

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Gabrielagrazebrook in reply to Mara84

I’m really sorry to hear, Mara...

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Shamu5678 in reply to Mara84

Oh I’m sorry Mara. All abit sh*t huh?!

I’m gonna have alcohol and a good cry and then figure out what’s next next week or something.

Sending hugs xx

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Mara84 in reply to Shamu5678

You know even thinking about drinking makes me want to cry... its such a difficult journey and I really wish we could get a happy ending...

sending you lots of love xxx

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Shamu5678 in reply to Mara84

I get that totally! Feel guilty for having a drink, even though I know it’s not worked.

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Sas1101

I'm so sorry hunni. It's so heartbreaking 🥺 my second cycle has just ended in a chemical. I've cried and let it all out. Remember it's ok to let your emotions out guilt free. Treat yourself to something lovely as you so deserve it! We will come back strong 💪💪💪 Big big hugs. Xx

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Luna_79

Ah so sorry to hear this , some great advice here and agree have a good old cry and in time you’ll feel stronger to face it again xx

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Chel91

Sorry to hear 😔 It's so tough and unfair. Big hugs to you, stay strong 💕 xx

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Annie1609

So so sorry

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Hartley1

Awww hang in there...take each day as it comes for now....when ready again you'll know what to do...there's loads of things to improve quality if that's what you want to do later when ready. For now let out your feelings xxx

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