Can’t wait any longer 😖 two weeks are the worst time of my life!

[Mara84]

Hello everyone, I’m on day 6 days post Frozen Embryo Transfer, I know I should wait at least to day 10 and then do the test but any of you got a BFP earlier on?

I have no symptoms and I’m so worry, maybe that’s why I am so desperate to test... help me! Xx

[CLDxxx]

Ahh Mara you’re doing great not to have tested! Keep going lovely! You have totally got this!! 💪

Wishing you luck xxx

[Mara84 in reply to CLDxxx]

Thank you so much for writing to me, it’s really hard, specially when you are not hopeful.. thank you for wishing we well.

Good luck to you too xxx

[Ozma4]

I am also 6 days now but had a 2 day transfer. I had loads of cramping at first but for the last 2 days nothing. It is such an anxious time but you are doing great. Keep on going and all the best of luck to you xx

[Mara84 in reply to Ozma4]

Awww my two weeks buddy! If I had the cramping maybe I would be more positive!

Only one more week to go 😖

Baby dust on both of us xx

[Ozma4 in reply to Mara84]

We got this 🙏🤞

[Countrymouse56]

👋🏻 Same over here !! I’m 5dp 3dt and I’m going crazy 😝🥴🤯 Try and hold out a bit longer 🤞🏻🤞🏻💐Xx

[Mara84 in reply to Countrymouse56]

So good to know I’m not alone! It’s been hard! Baby dust on us and best of luck ❤️🙏🏼🌈

[Georgie17]

It’s so hard but do your best to resist if you can. I try and put it to the back of my mind and to be honest after all these years of trying, i much prefer getting through it as if I were pregnant until test day. Might sound strange but the thought Of OTD is scary to me. Try and keep yourself gently busy so that your mind is focused on something else. I try and do craft projects to help me get through it. Won’t be long before OTD if you manage to wait xx

[Mara84 in reply to Georgie17]

I know what you mean dear, for sure possibility of being pregnant is much better than not being 😖 I’ll try 😖

Thank you again, hope you are doing well xx

[Georgie17 in reply to Mara84]

I’m okay thanks, going to go out for a walk today But transfer went well so fingers crossed xx

[Twiglet2]

Don’t do it 😂 that’s my advice as someone who has gave into temptation before, no good ever comes of it! A negative You will worry it was too early and a positive you will worry it will fade so it just turns you into a compulsive tester and adds to the stress! Wishing you loads of luck for the end of the week and that it goes in quickly for you 🤗 Xx

[Mara84 in reply to Twiglet2]

I was hoping to hear a lot of happy stories from ladies who tested after a week 😝 you are right and completely agree but it’s so hard not to given in... I’ll try to stay strong. Thank you so much for wishing me well, good luck to you too xx

[Twiglet2 in reply to Mara84]

I’m sure there is and no judgement if you do test now I have defo done it and the one thing it doesn’t do is cause any harm or change the outcome so if it helps you then go for it. The problem is it’s not really a proper ‘result’ for a few day’s yet so can just cause more worry (in my experience). Lots of luck to you xxx

[Sas1101]

Hi Mara...fellow crazy tww'er with you 🤪 I'm 7dp5dt, I had a wobble today but went out this evening for food with some girlfriends and it was the best thing. Keep distracted. Best wishes and hoping for your bfp! Xx

[Mara84 in reply to Sas1101]

hello my two weeks buddy! Honestly could we go to sleep and wake up with BFP please 😝 happy you had a nice night out. I’ll try my best to keep distracted.

Baby dust on us xx

[Mara84]

Thank you dear! No I know if it’s negative I literally cannot carry on with injections...

hope you are doing well. Xx

[Natasha62]

Hi Mara , I know I agree it’s worse time ever in our lives , just try to distract your mind , don’t look for signs, I had no signe and got my BFP yesterday, I was totally disappointed, don’t give up .

[Anasimoes]

I’m 4dp 5 dt and also will try to hang on until the 8/9th day to test.

Last time had faint lines and ended up being a crazy week testing everyday !!! And I finally had a chemical pregnancy.

Good luck to us! Like someone said already, Lets try to keep busy doing stuff and keeping tests away 😝

[Jols]

Hey Mara, I caved in and tested this morning 7dp6det and it was negative.

I don't regret testing tbh, at least now I think I am out and if anything changes then it will be a surprise.

I am having sore boobs since 4dpt and dull aching/feel like something is there for the past few days so was expecting a second line but, as we read from the forum, symptoms or not vary and mean nothing

Will test again on day 9 pt and 11 pt which is my OTD. Good luck with your cycle xx

[Muppetgirl]

Hi, sending you calm growing vibes. I had no symptons and when I tested with a shop bought test on my test day it was negative. Bloods the next day were positive and I'm now feeding my 7 month old. You've got this

[Weareback2]

Testing just gives you more worry....i promise I have been there.

I had no symptoms until 14th weeks for my second transfer.

First trasfer had sore boobs...ended in miscarriage. If we conceived naturally we wouldn't know we were pregnant at this stage as wouldnt gave symtopms. Good luck!

[Ivfgotadream]

Yes I always test from 4dp5dt- I got a a BFP at 4dp5dt this time too but I’m having twins

I’ve never waited until on the OTD 🤣

Also I had zero symptoms and still don’t x

[Nicole18smith]

I am also day 6 post 3dt and had quite abit of cramping till about day 4 then only little twinges so I know your pain keep going n hopefully get that BfP xxx

[PenguinBlue]

Just hold on Mara! I’m a day ahead of you and feeling the same but trying to hold out as long as I can. I know it’s hard but keep yourself busy as much as you can and fingers crossed for a bfp in a few days time!!! X

[Babywsoon]

I agree with Twiglet2 My last pregnancy I tested early but since I was positive, I ended up testing daily. That anxiousness fade until you get that ultrasound, and on my 7 weeks found out it was ectopic. I’m doing another transfer tmrw but what I’m trying to say is that I know it’s hard but distracting yourself from all the worries and just doing everything to make you happy really works because in the end, baby will arrive when it’s time sending all the love and prayers.

[DC5867]

I had my bfp 8dp5dfet. I’ve always believed that if it helps you to test then just do it. Just remember it might not give you the final answer at this stage. Xx

[Hartley1]

You may not have any symptoms and still get BFP but wait till OTD...keep busy...or just sleep...xxx

[Fizz37]

Im 9dp3dt and havent tested. My period is due tomorrow, and all my symptoms have largely vanished, have light cramping but can only tell when I focus on it. The trick with not testing is to take one day at a time. Then suddenly you are closer to otd than transfer date and i have found my mindset now says better to do it properly with a reliable result rather than having a too-early result that youre now either hoping changes, or doesnt....❤❤❤❤

[ttcemmie]

Getting there! Try hard not to test! If you test now and it's negative it'll just bring you down and it has a high chance of it being too early to test anyway! I don't always practice what I preach though... Don't worry about the symptoms or lack of them - symptoms don't seem to mean anything anyway!