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The Two Week Wait Poem and my news today

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It’s with a heavy heart and sore tired eyes that I write this - got my 3rd BFN this morning, it’s just devastating. I’m so exhausted from it all BUT not defeated - one frostie left from my 2nd and last NHS funded round. Hopefully the 4th little bugger will bring us 9 months of anxiety and 18 years of worry, love and joy and beyond...

So here’s a kind of ditty for anyone going through the 2ww or about to:

Everything could be a sign that you’re pregnant

Everything could be a sign that you’re not

Nothing could be a sign that you’re pregnant

Nothing could mean that nature’s forgot

Spotting of any colour, on any day

Nausea, dizziness, a vivid dream

Headaches, sore boobs, cramps,

Nothing!! - is what this all could mean

Keep your nosey finger away from google

Reach instead for pineapple and Snickers

Eat Brazil nuts and go for walks

Instead of looking in your knickers!

Be kind and kiss and hold each other tight

And hope and wait and love and pray

Then pee on that stick with all your might

As you MIGHT be pregnant on OT Day!

Love, Me x

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Tugsgirl

Sorry to read of your bfn. I really hope that your next transfer is the one 🤞 xx

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elle80

Really sorry to hear your news 😘 What a lovely post you have written! Take care hun xx

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Crazymrsrees79

Awww bless you, sending you hugs. It’s so hard, I’m going through my very last 2ww and found this post very helpful, positive really seeing as I haven’t been able to get in that frame of mind. Wishing you all the best for your little frostie and it being a right little fighter 🤞🏻🤞🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🤗🤗 xx

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destiny121

Awwew bless you my love.... this journey ayyyy is tough and hope is all we have.... i prayer next time is your time dear xxx

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gemmy999

Sorry to hear your news 😢 fab poem, bought a tear to my eye! So true. I’ve had 2 failed cycles and I’ve had all those symptoms. Take care and good luck xx

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Cinderella5

Sorry to hear you've had another BFN. It's really tough! Hopefully your frostie is the one!!🤞xx

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Autumnmoon

Sorry for the BFN the poem is lovely really sums it all up give yourself lots of love and sending positive vibes for next time you just never know when it will happen x

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Kyell2

I’m so sorry today wasn’t the news that we all want. Great poem and keeping my fingers crossed for number 4 for you 🤞 xx

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Squeak2

Oh no, so sorry things haven’t worked this time! What a fab poem and so very true!! Hugs 💕 xx

So so sorry for your BFN..

Have faith and focus on the beautiful little frostie you have. I know its alot easier said than done but positivity will pull you through this time x

Lovely poem, so relatable

You have the prayers and love of lots of people and i wish you all the luck in the world for your next transfer❤️

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Thank you so much for your lovely kind be words, that means a lot x

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Scarlett13

Unfortunately 3 months on its happened again

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