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Well OTD & it’s a big BFN for us, going to contact the clinic & see where we go from here as we had said we wouldn’t do any more rounds after this one but never say never. We are lucky enough to have our daughter through IVF and forever grateful for her πŸ’•

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Oh no I’m so sorry it hasn’t worked. ☹️xxx

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MD123

So sorry Laura 😒 x

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Peanutchips

So sorry to hear this Laura. BFNs are really tough. Take time to look after yourself. Sending lots of πŸ’• xxx

Hi Laura. Sorry it didnt work. I hope as a family you get through this. Sending love x

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Niki_B

So sorry for your BFN they are truely heartbreaking. Look after yourself πŸ’”β€πŸ’™

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Sammy246

I'm so sorry it didnt work. πŸ˜ͺ x

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Rach82

Sorry to hear this, sending love xx ❀

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Italy300618

I'm so sorry πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯ sending you lots of love xx

I'm so sorry, it is such a hard journey. Take some time to look after you xx

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EL7815

So sorry to hear this xx

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Livinginhope2019

So sorry, sending you a big hug xxx

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Kitty230515

Sorry to hear this my lovely. Sending love. Make sure you take some β€œme time”. Xx

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Twiglet2

So sorry to hear that Laura. It’s such a tough old journey and I’m glad you’ve had your lovely daughter on it to show it’s worth it but doesn’t make today any easier I bet. Take extra care of yourself xx πŸ’•

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Jonesy84

Sorry to hear this Laura xx

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RhinoCat

Oh Laura πŸ˜”πŸ˜£πŸ˜’ you are lucky to have your daughter but that doesn’t stop today stinging 😣 hugs to your heart πŸ˜˜πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’ be kind yourself 😘😘😘😘😘

So sorry to hear this! Sending you big hugs. Hope you have a good appointment with your consultant. X

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Shirazlover2013

Oh man I’m so sorry, it’s really shitty. Yes you may have your miracle little girl but it doesn’t make this hurt any less. Look after yourself xoxo

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Hope76

So sorry, I feel your pain. Like you am fortunate to have my one miracle. For 3 long years I have been trying & trying for my second with no luck at all. My first miracle was our very first NHS go. I find it hard to accept I keep failing since it’s so so hard. Just in middle of final cycle with my own eggs x

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Laura3101β€’ in reply toHope76

I always feel bad thinking just count myself lucky I have my daughter but I want her to have a sibling too. I think we might try another round & see how it goes. My nhs failed but 1st private round worked and now 2nd round failed. It’s like a lottery xx

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Hope76β€’ in reply toLaura3101

Laura you are so right it’s Defo a lottery. This is our 6th attempt now for a sibling. We know financially & emotionally this will be the last. Am 44 now and obvs quality is an issue. I wish at 40 my DR had said look your chances with DE be much more.... They were very hopeful as It happened before. So if I want to go down the DE route after this then I need to change clinics as my clinic have a cut off age of 42 for DE’s due to lack of donors. I want to have a good feeling about this time but after so many disappointments well you are scared to get hopes up x

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Laura3101β€’ in reply toHope76

Yeah you would rather they were straight talking. It’s like they said we had a great chance this time as the frozen embryo was same batch as fresh that took so I think they made it sound like it would more likely work than not x

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Hope76β€’ in reply toLaura3101

Yes I felt exactly the same and didn’t contemplate it nor working. Anyway our time will come am sure until then we hope and dream πŸ€žπŸΌπŸ™πŸ»

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Mara84

So sorry Laura! It’s really hard to get to this day and not get a good result. Look after yourself ❀️

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Faith103

Sorry to hear this. It never gets easier. Look after yourself. ❀️ xxxx

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Chel91

So sorry for your news hun. It's always so painful, big hugs πŸ’• xxxx

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Finchee27

So sorry to hear this. In the same boat. 1st round so was a bit iffy as to whether it would work anyway, but still stings. Thinking of you. Look after yourself. xx

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