First post - feeling useless

[aemd201]

Hi all,

I'm new here. Been trying for 3 years now. 2 miscarriages and just a massive struggle to get pregnant in the first place is getting me down. I have a bicornate uterus and my GP just rang to say that my latest blood tests show I'm not ovulating properly.

I'm 31 and my partner is 37 and I'm just really struggling mentally now.

Any advise or just positive vibes would be greatly appreciated.

[Nat246]

You’ve come to the right place for support from women who actually understand the pain of fertility struggles and baby loss.

My best coping strategy is planning for the next step, I guess knowing it’s not the end helps me to keep going xx

[aemd201 in reply to Nat246]

I just feel like my life has been on hold for 3 years.

I see all my friends having babies they never even wanted. Accidental pregnancies, surprise babies for people that didnt even know they were pregnant and I'm sat here desperate for a baby and my body is so completely against me.

[Nat246 in reply to aemd201]

I know the feeling. Every decision you make revolves around infertility. I’ve said no to everything for years just in case I had an appointment! It is very painful when other people fall pregnant so easily, I distance myself from it as much as possible

[RhinoCat]

It’s tough finding out the unique things about your body. Hopefully they can put you on stuff to make you ovulate or at least be more fine tuned with treatment 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 it’s a long and tough road.

You are not alone!

We go with you !

Massive hugs of understanding 😘😘😘💐💐💐💐💐💐💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

Rhinocat x 🦏🐈

[pelvicpain123]

Sending you positive vibes and virtual hugs xxx