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Hi,

Is anyone starting there downregulation for IVF treatment in august?

Would be great to have a buddy to talk to whilst going through it.

Since I picked up my medication last week, I feel so overwhelmed I'm not sure if it's normal... but taking all the boxes out the bag made me look and think why is it so unfair that we have to pump ourselves with so much drugs for the chances of this working, when there's so many women who get intimate and then accidentally fall pregnant. Just upsets me(sorry for my lil rant)

I think my emotions and anxiety is all over the place since seeing the meds it feels more real, but terrifying. I'm thinking I should maybe start getting into yoga or do something to help get my mind off the fear.

Any recommendations would be appreciated...

Thank you again xxxx

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emily92353

Hi, Iโ€™m starting on short protocol in August, trying to keep positive Iโ€™ve just been focusing on enjoying myself going on days out and having a nice summer! X

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toemily92353

Awww amazing!! I'm on short protocol aswel... sounds good, yeah I need to start doing more things to keep my mind off it. Its quite hard whilst on furlough aswel. But I think I'll start going out for more walks in the evenings to relax. Will it be your 1st round of IVF? Xxx

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emily92353โ€ข in reply toJasmeet1991mb

Yeah this is my first round I had to wait a really long time because of my age/covid, Iโ€™m nervous itโ€™s going to be horrible and hoping it works first time x

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toemily92353

I'm nervous aswel, but we just have to take it each day as it comes... I've been waiting since my appointment from December where they confirmed IVF was the right treatment for me. Hope fingers crossed it works 1st time for us both. Xx I'll private message you when I start ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ xxxx

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Gingy10โ€ข in reply toemily92353

Hey, I'm starting short protocol in 2 weeks! Eeek. This is my second go, did long cycle the first time in February.

Feel so much more relaxed this time, as I know what to expect and realised that sitting thinking and stressing about it all does me no good.

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emily92353โ€ข in reply toGingy10

I hope it works this time!! Good luck!

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ttcemmie

Hoping to be an IVF buddy for August although I don't have my schedule yet from my clinic! Will email them again today! Best wishes for this cycle! x

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply tottcemmie

Awww fingers crossed you get your schedule and start in august so we can chat whilst on this journey ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคž Thank you, and all the best for your upcoming cycle aswel. ๐Ÿ˜˜ xxx

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ttcemmieโ€ข in reply toJasmeet1991mb

What are your dates, Jasmeet? I just got my schedule and will be starting Norethisterone next week and then injections on the 12th August!

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply tottcemmie

Omgggg how exciting!!!! So I have to wait for my period to start call clinic.. was a week after then scan then will start norethisterone then wait for another bleed then scan then stims... I think I'll probably be a week or 2 behind you slightly xx

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply tottcemmie

How are u feeling? U excited to finally start x

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ttcemmieโ€ข in reply toJasmeet1991mb

So excited to finally start! Can't wait; in fact. It's been a long time since I did the injections so I imagine that's going to take some getting used to again, but feeling really hopeful. x

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Ketkoot

Hi. I start my tablets on the 1st August, injections on the 24th with egg retrieval on the 4th September ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toKetkoot

How exciting!!! Yaaayyy another buddy... is this your 1st round? Xxx

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Megandmog

Iโ€™ll be starting stims in August. Iโ€™m down regging atm as Iโ€™m on long protocol ๐Ÿ˜Š. This is my first cycle ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toMegandmog

Hope down regulating is going well... and wish u all the best of luck. I'll pm you and we can keep in contact xxx

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Luamber

Hi, I had my first clinic appointment yesterday. I picked up the bag of needles and went through tons on paperwork!

Iโ€™m on the long protocol, should start injections on the 25th August and eggs should ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป be collected on the 3rd October!

Sounds like a long way off but Iโ€™m just telling myself that it gives me time to process everything.....

Iโ€™ve got loads of appointments for blood tests abs scans during September so Iโ€™m sure it will fly by! ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป

This is my first time too! I really hope we all get the positive outcomes we are after! ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’• xx

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Luamberโ€ข in reply toLuamber

I actually meant the eggs would be collected on the 28th September and then embryos put it on the 3rd October! Haha you see, information overload yesterday! ๐Ÿคช xx

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toLuamber

Hahahahah... it's okay, it feels crazy when they give you so much information to try and process!! U think omgg this is so overwhelming but it's good when u have all the relevant info u can then plan out things. I'll pm you so we can keep in contact xx

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BabyDreams20

I've just started my down reg on long protocol today. I don't have any dates confirmed yet other than three tracking scans next week. It's my first ivf cycle and I can't get my head around how I feel - nervous, hopeful, excited, terrified!

I absolutely feel the same about how unfair the whole process is! I tried meditation for the first time tonight and that seems to have helped me settle my mind a bit. Hopefully it all goes well ๐Ÿคž

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toBabyDreams20

Good luck "BabyDreams20" to starting your long protocol down regulation... I've just downloaded the mindful app, as like you I'm nervous and terrified and excited n SCARED!!

I'll PM aswel so we can keep in touch during this journey as it's nice to have someone to relate n talk to in this process. I think every one of us cant get our heads around the feeling we feel.

Fingers crossed, for an easy and steady month /two months ahead of us during this journey x

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AP86

Hey! I'll be starting in August too, 1st FET, short protocol. I know exactly how u feel!x

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toAP86

Hey AnisahP, how exciting!!! It's so overwhelming, how did you calm your nerves through out the whole process? Xx I'll pm you x

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Rachel-1992

Hey, I'm starting on short protocol any day now. Just had my period arrive today so will be in for my baseline scan and startung injections within a couple of days.

I know how you feel about seeing all of the meds you have to inject, it's quite overwhelming! Anything you can do to keep a calm mind will really help, if yoga is your thing definitely do that, or if walking or reading or meditation is your thing, do whatever will make you happy.

I have been reading a great book called 'How to cope with IVF' which talks through the process and gives lots of tips for things to do to look after your physical and mental health during treatment. I would recommend it.

I'm wishing you all the best for your treatment. Just remember what you're doing it all for, and stay strong. You will get through this xxx

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Jasmeet1991mb

Hey First-time-IVFer

Congratulations on getting to this point, I think it's a milestone within itself... and good luck with your baseline scan and I hope your 1st injection goes well!! ๐Ÿ™‚

I might google the book and try quickly purchase it.. sounds like a fantastic book!!

I'm so glad reading is helping relieve the anxiety and stress... I have downloaded mindful app so I will start that soon. And exercising is my thing on how I like to release and destress I am going to exercise until I start my 1st set of tablets I think.

Your so right, when you get to this stage sometimes everything goes out the window and then nerves kicks in and takes over everything. Yes I'll keep it in the back of my mind why I'm on this journey and remain calm with your advise.

Thank you so much for reaching out.. I'll PM you xxx

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Tulips1978

Hey. I start the short protocol 16th August. This is my second round. I did buselerin and gonal f on my first round and second round Iโ€™ll be taking menopur and cetrotide. Hope it all goes well for you and happy to keep in touch through the process ๐Ÿ˜ƒ xx

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toTulips1978

How exciting!! Fingers crossed this 2nd round is the last round ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜... your protocol is the same as mine, I'll be on menopur & cetrotide... would be lovely to keep in touch with you throughout the whole process. ๐Ÿ’— x

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Tulips1978โ€ข in reply toJasmeet1991mb

Oh wow. Yes would be lovely to keep in touch throughout the process. When do you start the injections? I start norethisterone on Saturday. Fingers crossed for both of us ๐Ÿ˜˜ x

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Court_88

Hey Jasmeet! I have endo too and have just started my long protocol downregs so hopefully will be doing my 2nd FET transfer at the end of Aug ๐Ÿ˜ฌ would love to have some buddies! I did my egg collection back in November and froze them all, but I definitely found yoga, meditation and acupuncture relaxing to help get me through it. Itโ€™s all very strange when it starts though, youโ€™ve just got to take it day by day! Xxxx

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toCourt_88

Hey court... hope your well. Yes I can imagine it's all overwhelming when it all offically starts with the 1st pill. I have downloaded mindful app to start meditating. Yes I will take it 1 day at a time and try to remain positive.

How are you feeling about your FET? Xxx

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Court_88โ€ข in reply toJasmeet1991mb

Yes the mindful app sounds like a good idea. Being on here is so supportive too :) I didnโ€™t know about this until after my egg collection etc and wish I had used it for support at the time!! Eek i seem to switch everyday from feeling really nervous to really excited about the FET must be the hormones haha. Itโ€™s so nice to know many of us are in the same boat this summer - hope there will be lots of rainbow babies ๐ŸŒˆ

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Thistimearound

Hi, Iโ€™m starting on a short protocol beginning of August. I have PCOS and will be on Menopur and Fyremadel. Itโ€™s our first round so Iโ€™m not sure what to expect. Feeling so emotional already without any drugs. Good luck to everyone in their journeys โ˜˜๏ธxx

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Rachel-1992โ€ข in reply toThistimearound

Good luck with your short protocol! I hope all goes well! It's my first time as well but it looks like there are lots of supportive people on here and it's nice to know we're not alone! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toRachel-1992

Theres alot of supportive women which is amazing... it helps when u have so many beautiful people in the same timeline as you too. X

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toThistimearound

I feel the complete same, not sure what to expect... and feel emotional like you aswel without having any of the drugs yet. Good luck on your journey aswel "Thistimearound" ... I think if your happy to stay in touch we should for sure. Xxxxx

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Gingy10โ€ข in reply toThistimearound

Hey, me too. But this is my second cycle. I did the long protocol in February but cancelled as I overstiulated.

I will start stims around the 10th August, eeeek exciting.

Hope all goes well for you

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Jasmeet1991mb

Would any of you girls be willing to start a WhatsApp group to help stay in touch, and a way for us all to communicate.. n check in on everyone whilst we are all on this journey together xxx

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Praying4baby1โ€ข in reply toJasmeet1991mb

Hi Jasmeet1991mb

I'd love to start one , If your willing to join I'd be happy to set it up

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Court_88โ€ข in reply toPraying4baby1

Yes would love to join! X

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toCourt_88

Amazing.. let's message Praying4baby1 private message her.. with number to make a whstapp group. Xxx

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Rachel-1992โ€ข in reply toJasmeet1991mb

Yes that's a great idea

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toRachel-1992

Amazing.. let's message Praying4baby1 private message her.. with number to make a whstapp group. Xxx

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Thistimearoundโ€ข in reply toJasmeet1991mb

Thatโ€™s a great idea! Iโ€™ll drop you a PM Praying4baby1.

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Naddy1

Hey I should also be downregging in August, would love to have some friends lol x

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Jasmeet1991mbโ€ข in reply toNaddy1

Thank you for getting in touch, same as all us lovely ladies... private message Praying4baby1 . with your number if you would like to be part of a whstapp group so we can check in on everyone. Xxx

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Net25

Hi hun so I've been through a short protocol, and having my 2nd fet coming up next month but just want to say to all ivf newbies, they I promise it isn't as bad as we build it up in our minds! Obviously everyone's journey, results and side effects will vary but I know that anyone who is brave enough to take the leapt into ivf land is definitely brave enough to get through it stronger ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ’•.

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