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I just cant get my head around what's happened!!! I started bleeding the Thursday it was spotting I got sent for a scan friday the lady said possible twins but not 100%sure she said a baby that had a heart beat and was moving around etc and she also seen not too close to the baby possible secound sac with a dark shadow over which was blood the lady said the baby was fine and she was happy and also that I still had more bleeding to come!!! I left the scan with my 12 week scan booked and when I got home the bleeding started getting heavier and cramping really badly then stopped around 5ish till around 8 the next morning then the bleeding and cramping started again but a lot more worse then stopped again around 3 till 4clock in the morning then sunday morning I woke up to blood litrally gushing out of me went to the toilet and loads of clots started coming out the pain got so intense around 10am to the point I could feel I needed to push something out an ambulance came and took me to hospital and whilst I was at the hospital something came out In my tissue as i wiped the doctor said it looked to be the fetus!!! I'm so confused on what's happened because the baby was fine friday with a heart beat etc and the lady who did the scan and the consultant seemed happy with the baby!! I'm confused because the consultant said you dont start bleeing till the fetus heart has stopped but the fetus had a heart beat? And the bleeding started the day before I had the scan that showed baby was fine!! Was it twins and I've lost 1 but still could be pregnant or was it the baby I seen on the scan on the friday... i feel numb lost and so confused to what's happened and they said they cant scan me till tuesday when the scanning department is open again!!! Sorry for the long post I'm just confused!!! This is a picture of the baby I seen friday!!

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Hey,

Sorry I don’t have any answers for you but I read your post and I can see how worried you are and just wanted to wish you well! Did they not confirm if you were still pregnant before leaving the hospital? Xx

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They just said that what came out in my hand was definitely the fetus and to go for a scan tuesday/wednesday to make sure everything is out my system... they said they didn't need to check my hormoan level because it was pointless! Xx

Im so sorry kewii. I hope there is a second baby and its doing fine. Heartbroken for you x

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Cinderella5

Gosh, Im so sorry that you're going through this, its such an awful experience to have to endure. Thinking of you.xx

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