I think we all have those days. You just have to live through them, and the next day you will feel more positive. It's rubbish this emotional rollercoaster. That's really awful that your doctor is so negative!! Have you tried councilling or just talking to your other half or close family/ friends? Hope tomorrow is better. Keep strong we all have our down days xx

It took me a few years of coming to terms I wasnt going to concieve naturally, bite the bullet and speak to a clinic. I felt at the beginning it was like saying there is something wrong with me and it can a negative feel. However Ive come to the realisation that just because I need IVF doesnt make me a bad person. We are all different and thats what makes life so interesting. It would be very boring if we were all the same. Be good to yourself and pat yourself on the back for being the strong lady you are. And though you will have bad days, you will equally have very good days and the goal at the end is so soo worth it xxx Big hugs to you xxx

This all is a terrifying emotional rollercoaster and half of the time none of us knows if we're coming or going.. all I can say is that have a chat with your doctor and be honest, maybe she's just one of those very matter of fact let's pinpoint the problems so we can deal with them type of doc? Otherwise just point out that you need some gentler coaching. And get the counselling sessions and maybe some relaxation or reflexology sessions. And always remember that rubbish days will be followed by better ones, nothing lasts forever, pain and sorrow included xoxo

Hate the down days!!! And they r worse if u r feeling unsupported! Personally I wouldn't want to use a doctor who made me feel negative regardless of her success!! U need to know she's 100% committed to giving u 100% in this!

Would u feel rave enuf to tell her u need her to be more positive or could u consider changing doctors? X

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