I want a baby

[Amybordon]

I’m Gemma Fidoe And I’m 26 years old I’ve been single 8 years and my partner she left me and went travelling and because of health reasons I can’t have children National

[Bluelady-sing]

Sorry to hear

[Amybordon in reply to Bluelady-sing]

Thank you it’s been really hard for me

[Bluelady-sing]

You still young though

[Amybordon in reply to Bluelady-sing]

I know but because of health reason I would really love to have a baby

[Bluelady-sing in reply to Amybordon]

Sorry about health...I don't know what is?

[Amybordon]

Yeah I hope so

[Becs1980]

I’m a single lady I went through fertility treatment with sperm donor and I now have my precious 16 week old daughter

[Amybordon in reply to Becs1980]

Aw congratulations

[Bluelady-sing in reply to Becs1980]

How old were you

[Becs1980 in reply to Bluelady-sing]

38 when my treatment started and eggs collected. 39 when I gave birth as my first transfer failed. 40 8 weeks after my daughter was born

[Bluelady-sing in reply to Becs1980]

Wow

[Afrohair]

I’m so sorry there are lots of options out there to have a baby if you still have ovaries like ivf you could also try talking to a councillor to try and deal with it if that is not at all possible .there is adoption and surrogacy I don’t feel like you are too young to have these feelings I had my first child at 19 years old and you can have a baby one way or another if that’s what you want. my cousin has just left school and yearns for a baby and it’s all she’s ever wanted she happily talks about wanting to meet someone and have a baby she went to university and said it’s not for her all she wants is to be a mother she has lots of caring abilities and already cares for her sick mum so it’s in her nature sometimes you just know from a young age what you want x

[Amybordon in reply to Afrohair]

Thank you it was so heard to here that I mite not be able to have a baby normally because of health reasons and my ex girlfriend she wanted a baby but I can’t give her that so the hardest thing I ever done was to let her go x

[Afrohair in reply to Amybordon]

I’m so sorry !would she not accept you not having a baby naturally ?could you not share this issue together? and have an un biological baby or maybe she could of had the baby for both of you .thats so sad to hear x

[Amybordon in reply to Afrohair]

She said it didn’t matter she loved me no matter what but I new in her eyes she wanted a baby and I couldn’t give her what she wanted so even though I loved her so much I at to let her go and I told her to be happy and she went travelling and now she’s married to a lovely girl and got a lovely baby on the way and I’m so happy for them both x

[Afrohair in reply to Amybordon]

That’s nice !but such a shame you let her go I always wonder about letting my partner go we are trying at the minute but lost one last year we don’t know if it will happen again yet I might have to have surgery first only time will tell nice speaking to you x

[Amybordon in reply to Afrohair]

Nice speaking to you to x

[fors5621]

I'm so sorry... Is being a single mother a solution for you? I think you don't have to hurry. Take your time and try to enjoy your life. Who knows maybe you will find a good girl and you will start a family together. xx

[Amybordon in reply to fors5621]

I would love to me a single mum and I hope I fine someone and some time you don’t have to be in relationship to have a baby xx