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Total fail another BFN

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So upset 3 years on this ivf rollcoaster

I did my transfer on 16/03 day 3 embryos

I tested this morning and I got bfn

This is my 13 ivf try

I don't know when I should stop

I can't have donner egg

This time I went to Greece to do a trial of something called PRP

Total failure

Is it me and my husband can't have children together

Is it our embryo refusing to be our children

Is it God plan not to have children

When I should stop

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Picalilli99

I’m so sorry that you have had another BFN. I feel your pain as repeated failed cycles are just devastating. It sounds like you have been trying different things too which I feel always gives that extra sense of hope, which can then bring major disappointment when it does not work. I’m sorry I cannot help you with answers, as I have many of the same questions myself after many failed cycles. But I just wanted to say I hear you and you are not alone. Sending hugs hugs lovely ❤️ xxx

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Thank you

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Sezvic

If you don’t mind me asking. Why you can’t have donor egg? Take care of yourself.xxx

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Core

So sorry to hear this BFNs are heartbreaking and you are so strong to have been going for so long you truly deserve to be a mother xx

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Hartley1

So sorry...very difficult to hear what you're going through. When it doesn't happen it's only natural you question absolutely everything. I know I did! Things we did which worked for us: asked the clinic to try different tests to rule things out, Read it starts with the egg, Started acupuncture. Did yoga 3x a week found a PT and followed for a month. Gave up work for 1 month before treatment started. Went part time 2 months prior to that...basically reduced my workload gradually.

Which supplements are you both taking?

These things are worth considering but not always 100%. I prayed for the first time since uni exams.

Take each day as it comes. Hang in there thinking of you xxx

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