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First failed round 😢

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I guess these two tests this morning confirm that it hasn’t happened this time 🤷🏼‍♀️ guess it’s going to be months before they’ll do it again now, probably with more bumps along the way like this time, good luck to all those in the TWW and congratulations to everyone who got there BFP ❤️

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Cinderella5

Awww Im so sorry to see your update, chemicals are so cruel! Love and hugs.xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

Thank you 😔 hopefully your journey takes you down the baby path soon 🤞🏻🌈❤️

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Cinderella5 in reply toKhess124

Thank you Khess! Its been a long path for sure but at least we have hope!!xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

I’ve only just joined the IVF path but too see the first ever positive pregnancy test was amazing so I caved and got my hopes up 😩 hope and baby dust! 🤞🏻🌈

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Cinderella5 in reply toKhess124

It doesnt matter how many times you do this, seeing those lines and getting your hopes up then things dont work out is so upsetting. There is always a danger that they may disappear but I test early too so know why you did it...no lectures from me on that one! Bless you, plan something nice for yourselves....a reward for going through this!xx

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Khess124 in reply toCinderella5

Oh bless you, it’s so lovely to come onto a forum where people just understand! I’ve still got work to attend atm 😩 best of luck hunny thank you for the kind words xxx

Aww Khess 💔im so sorry this time it wasnt meant to be. Dont know what to say but wanted to send my love and hopefully we will be back in the game sooner than we think xx stay strong ❤️

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Hopefully it’ll come soon ❤️ so sorry to see about your updates hun best of luck for your next try whenever we may get our second go 🤞🏻❤️

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Khess124

Thank you, i had the worst experience with the nurse from the clinic yesterday too! She literally said to me ‘well you wouldn’t have known if you didn’t test so much and so early’ like it’s already a tough time with out a nurse like that 😔 best of luck with your journey ❤️

in reply toKhess124

Omg im so sorry. Have heard something similar but this does sound awful!! Do you have any frozen embies you can look forward to? If not will you stay with same clinic? X

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It’s difficult because the last 3 embies left all took the extra day to make it and there all bc/bb 🤷🏼‍♀️ do you have any left? And I’m not sure how it works because I’m NHS funded 😔 x

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Same here sister. I have one left am nhs funded and was told to wait two bleeds. But now u never know what the situation will be. Just came off first bleed which i got direct after stopping the progesterone in one or two days. Keep strong what else can we do. Easier said than done x ❤️

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Two bleeds will feel forever for me I have such irregular periods! and then it’s not knowing when after the coronavirus 😢 best of luck on your journey hun I’ll look out for your updates 🤞🏻❤️🌈

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As Daisy said it will get easier promise! I have that my last cycle was 64 days. My nurse said to ring if i didnt had bleed in 5 weeks after my CP. she will induce a period. So thats an option you can ask for hun. Again who know under these circumstances x me too 😘

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Oh gosh 😔 I can just see that being what I need but it won’t matter with the way the coronavirus has gone! Best of luck hunny xx

So sorry to see this I was really hoping you would get better news. It gets easier I promise. Sending you lots of love and hoping you don't have to wait tooooo terribly long to go again xx

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Thank you daisy, I’m so sorry about your news this round, 😢 i suppose they tell you to expect the worst and hope for the best but seeing that first ever positive test I actually got excited 😔 hopefully we’ll all get there one day 🤞🏻🌈❤️

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CLDxxx

So sorry Khess. Sending love xx

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Khess124 in reply toCLDxxx

Thank you ❤️

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LMC2020

Sending you love and hugs! ❤️

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Khess124 in reply toLMC2020

Thank you ❤️

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ttcemmie

So so sorry to hear this, Khess. Devastating news. Sending lots of love. xxxx

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Khess124 in reply tottcemmie

Thank you hun best of luck on your tww 🤞🏻🤞🏻🌈xxx

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ttcemmie in reply toKhess124

Thanks. x

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RhinoCat

Awh pet 😘 hope you are ok in a few days 😘😘😘😘

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Khess124 in reply toRhinoCat

Thank you ❤️ best of luck hun xx

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Chel91

So very sorry! 😔 What a difficult journey this can be. Big hugs to you!! xxxx

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Khess124 in reply toChel91

Thank you hun best of luck for your TWW 🤞🏻🌈❤️

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Patches86

Sending love and positive thoughts. Such a tough journey and these circumstances don’t make it any easier on us!

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Khess124 in reply toPatches86

Thank you hun best of luck on your journey 🤞🏻🌈❤️

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Abbywithag

Ahhh sorry khess you’re time will surely come! First round I feel is always the worst. If you ever need to chat my messages are open xxx

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Khess124 in reply toAbbywithag

Thank you hun! Congrats on the positive 🤞🏻 best of luck for the road ahead of you ❤️❤️

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JoP32

Oh no, I’m so sorry it hasn’t worked this time lovely 😢

Take care of yourself. Sending you a big virtual hug 🤗 xxx

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Khess124 in reply toJoP32

Thank you hunny, best of luck for you TWW 🤞🏻🌈❤️

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Tryagain45

I'm so sorry Khess. I know how gutted you must feel. And we all get our hopes up every time we do this...we are human afterall. Sure we need hope to get through this, otherwise what do we have. Take some time to get over this and hopefully everything will resume soon when the virus situation calms down. Sending big hugs xx❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Khess124 in reply toTryagain45

Thank you hunny! Best of luck with your journey ❤️

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