Hello March 2020 😞

[FrancyItaly]

1st March. Here is the month I should have given birth to my first baby. I’m feeling extremely anxious and I really hope it won’t be like this the whole month. Sorry to be a pain ladies.

[Livinginhope2019]

You’re not a pain at all, I know exactly how you feel, I would have also been due this month. Sending you a big hug 💕xx

[FrancyItaly in reply to Livinginhope2019]

I’m sorry for your loss. I send you a big hug too, hopefully this month will bring some good news for us 💕

[Hidden]

Sending a huge amount of love 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗you’re not a pain at all ❤️It’s totally understandable how you feel. We’re here for you always 💋💋💋💋

[FrancyItaly in reply to Hidden]

Thank you for always being there. I hope you are doing well 💜

[Hidden in reply to FrancyItaly]

Anytime hun ❤️We’re IVF warriors sisters aren’t we? 💋💋💋💋💋

[FrancyItaly in reply to Hidden]

I haven’t had experience with ivf yet, that must be another difficult journey I hope I will not have to start. With with my Pcos who knows 💕 glad to know I would get all the support from you amazing warriors here.

[Hidden in reply to FrancyItaly]

Oh I’m sorry I thought you had! Yes I hope you won’t have to go down this route but if you do we are here as you know ❤️Are you back from Italy? I’m ok, bit anxious but as the days pass I’m managing to control my anxiety a bit more...I guess I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that really this pregnancy thing is out of my control 😂🙈(and I’m a bit of a control freak so very hard for me to accept that) 💋💋💋💋💋💋

[FrancyItaly in reply to Hidden]

Yes, I was back on Thursday as I wanted to be with my husband for the weekend 😅 yes, take every day as a gift, eat well and relax as much as you can. Just enjoy! I know the feeling, I’m also a control freak but in this case there is no much you can do. Just be grateful for the moment, I know you are x

[Faith103]

I feel your pain. This applies to me as well I lost my angel 😇 last July. I had an ectopic. My baby would have also been due in March. Thoughts are with you. Stay strong 💪 xxxx

[FrancyItaly in reply to Faith103]

Oh I’m sorry to hear about your ectopic. It was my biggest fear, I hope you are well. Thank you for your message 💕

[Faith103 in reply to FrancyItaly]

❤️❤️

[Elle34Inz]

So sorry my lovely sending you lots of hugs and kisses xxx 😘😘😘 here is you want to chat ever xxx

[FrancyItaly in reply to Elle34Inz]

Thank you for your message, I’ll take all the hugs and kisses. How are you doing today? Same here if you want to chat 💕

[Elle34Inz in reply to FrancyItaly]

Thank you so so much xx I have been struggling so much the last 2 day’s. It’s tough ❤️ thank you for all your support

[FrancyItaly in reply to Elle34Inz]

Oh I’m so sorry. It’s so early days for you, I have no memory of it. I just know I was feeling empty and lonely, but I’m sure you know we are here for you when you need x

[Elle34Inz in reply to FrancyItaly]

I couldn’t face work today I was hoping too but I just didn’t feel ready! Thank you so much xx 🥰

[ttcemmie]

Hi FrancyItaly. Sorry that this is a tough time for you. I went through this in January and it was more painful than I was expecting. Here for you. Sending lots of love. xxxx

[FrancyItaly in reply to ttcemmie]

Thank you for your message and sorry you went through that. I guess I just have to be strong this month and wait for my other two friends to give birth 😓 after that maybe I will relax! 💕

[ttcemmie in reply to FrancyItaly]

It's a difficult time to go through. Especially not being pregnant again by the due date, which I really thought I would be. Or now for that matter! Any time at all would be just fine! Oh gosh, two friends giving birth. Be kind to yourself this month and do anything you need to make yourself feel even the slightest bit happier. x

[FrancyItaly in reply to ttcemmie]

I also thought I would be pregnant again by then, but I’m struggling to ovulate. This is the hardest thing, how can I get pregnant again if my body is not helping. I will do x

[FrancyItaly]

Thank you so much ladies 💕

[Tryagain45]

Due dates are always hard so it's perfectly normal for you to feel like this. I had a due date last month and I was so sad. All you can do is feel the pain and try and find your way through it. Maybe do something this month to mark the little one - even if it's just going somewhere nice for the day with your partner. All I can say is the sadness passes and once the due date is over its a relief emotionally.

Sending big hugs to you xxxx

[FrancyItaly in reply to Tryagain45]

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. It’s so heartbreaking. I’m about to start a new job in two weeks and I’ll be at work that day. We will anyway honor our little one in some way 💕

[29beckie]

I should have been due next week my friend is due to have her baby this week it’s so hard, iv bin in this situation before (last may) it’s going to be sad but keep hold of that hope your stronger than you think maybe do something to celebrate in there memory keep yourself destracted be easy on yourself xxx

[FrancyItaly in reply to 29beckie]

So sorry for your loss. I know it’s so hard. One of my friends gave birth in December and now I have two more friends, one due in April (just after my due date) and one in June. It’s so hard to be happy for others when I feel so miserable for myself. We will do something nice for sure 💕

[PurpleLove19]

March is a hard month for us all as it’s also Mothers Day without this pain too. Sending my love 💜

[FrancyItaly in reply to PurpleLove19]

You’re right, I was thinking that today! Mother’s day is on 22nd and my due date 25th! I also start to see lots of blossoms around which is a constant reminder that it’s now March and Spring is here. I hope you are doing well 💕

[Hope4usall]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you xx💞

[FrancyItaly in reply to Hope4usall]

Thank you 💕 hope your levels are growing nicely x

[Mara84]

I’m so sorry to forget. We will get pregnant this year! I’m sure. Lots of love ❤️

[FrancyItaly in reply to Mara84]

I hope and pray for it 💜

[Mara84 in reply to FrancyItaly]

I know dear 😘😘😘😘

[RhinoCat]

Sending hugs 🤗 lets hope that there will be some rays of sunshine to get you through this month. Just do one day at a time. I’m hoping your pain eases and that your soul moves from its pain of winter to the fresh colours of spring .

💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

[FrancyItaly in reply to RhinoCat]

Love your positivity, even after your BFN. I should definitely learn from strong warriors like you! Thank you for your message. How are you doing? 💕

[RhinoCat in reply to FrancyItaly]

Feeling better but anxious about down reg injection tomo. I haven’t found my positive pants yet and husband is away . Hopefully tomo will be ok 👌🏻

[FrancyItaly in reply to RhinoCat]

Positive pants? 😅 I wish you all the best for tomorrow 👍🏻