I seriously can’t believe I’m finally able to write this post after 6 years of ttc, 3 surgeries, 3 rounds of ivf, 8 embryo transfers and a miscarriage - but I’ve finally gone and done it!
I’m at home with my baby in my arms writing this post with tears in my eyes - tears of happiness for my miracle and tears of gratitude and empathy for everyone on this forum who has supported me emotionally on my journey, educated me on ivf, and is still going strong on their own journey.
Ladies on here posting about their babies seemed like ‘other people’, lucky people, people that weren’t me...yet here I now am, one of those lucky people. So it can happen to YOU too. Please don’t give up, please keep a positive mindset, please keep telling yourself it will happen, please be your own cheerleader.
Here is Fabian Jude Ashton.
He was born Monday 24th Feb weighing 7lbs 15oz and he is unbelievably perfect and we are so in love xxxxxxx
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What a joy to read this. Enjoy every moment mama, you have come such a long way and this is your destiny ❤️ Congratulations your baby boy is a dream xxxx
A massive congratulations!! Such a long journey to get to your little boy but he sounds like he was worth the wait. Enjoy these special early days and all that is to come!! Xx
Congratulations this is amazing news. I'm so happy for you and enjoy every minute (although it's okay not to enjoy every minute!) Such a lovely name too, I love it xx
Congratulations!!!! I’m so delighted for you and know just how much it must mean after what you’ve been through!! I’m on the journey and never thought I’d get there either!! ❤️👍 thank you for a wonderful post which is so full of gratitude too!!xx
Massive congratulations on your little beaut! He’s gorgeous. So pleased for u xx
I logged in tonight just to see your happy news! Brilliant. I’m so pleased for you!
I still cry now over finally being a Mummy. I still have “pinch me” moments so you’ll be like it for a long while to come and with your hormones raging too you’ll be in overdrive! Being a parent is hard work, especially in the early days but enjoy it all, even the sleep deprivation! It goes so quickly xx
Congratulations Scarlett! He is absolutely beautiful and what a cool name! You deserve this happiness with the journey you've had. You are proof that perseverance and self belief can get you your goal. Truly inspirational. Wishing you a blessed journey in motherhood. ❤🤗🎉🍾👍👌🙏
Oh look at this little mr handsome! So so happy for you, a huge congratulations. Enjoy being a little family!
Oh Scarlett I am so pleased for you, he is gorgeous and look.at those cheeks,huge. Congratulations
Thankyou for giving me hope,I have been following your posts since I joined this forum 2 years ago,just gearing up for our 7th transfer and having my progesterone tweeked this time thanks to the advice of you and Cinderella so hopefully that will make a difference.
Hooray!! Massive congratulations to you. I am so happy for you! Must be the most amazing feeling to have you beautiful boy here in your arms finally. Enjoy every minute of it, you deserve this xxx🙌🏻💓
Wow! He is perfect! Congratulations! And thank you for your message - so lovely and so positive! We’ll find you & enjoy every second of motherhood - you deserve it! 🎉💕🌈💐Xxx
Masses and masses of congratulations Scarlett I am so happy for you and he looks just perfect xx
I’m so excited to be reading this- you’ve had such a long & tough journey but you didn’t give up & here you are with your adorable little boy 💙 Huge congratulations. Enjoy your lovely family unit. xxx
Scarlett, you have been on this forum for as long as I can remember and I have been reading your posts during your journey. I am so happy for you and so hopeful that my journey will end the same way.
I think this journey makes us appreciate our miracles so much more. Enjoy your family Scarlett. You have a whole new journey. Xx
Awww what a lovely post! Huge congratulations!! So pleased that you finally have your little boy safely in your arms after such a long and difficult journey ❤️ Xxxx
Awww look at that wee face!!😍🥰 He's gorgeous Scarlett!! Lucky to have a mummy & daddy like you that never gave up!! Wishing you all the best as a wee family. Hope you're recovering well, hug to you and a gentle hug for the wee man!!💙xx
Congratulations, he is a lovely. Can’t believe how quick it has gone from when you mentioned your treatment had worked to now having your baby. Enjoy being a mummy xx
I had no idea you had even had a BFP after and just managed to come across this by accident
I'm so so happy for you! Looking back at your posts it seems progesterone support really was the key?
I'm glad I kept banging on about progesterone levels last year - it is so so key and so poorly understood by clinics it's frankly disgusting - why haven't they figured this stuff out when it's so easy(& cheap!) To measure and correct.
Your little one looks gorgeously healthy, so happy for you and just what I needed before we start ivf again - a sprinkle of hope xx
Thank you so much xxxx so glad you’re going again, good luck! Progesterone was totally the game changer for me for sure and I agree that clinics should be testing everyone and be right on it! Hope to see your happy news soon xxx
Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful boy! Thank you for sharing your inspiring journey with us!
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Congratulations!! You deserve this! Enjoy your time with your precious new family xx
Great news Scarlett! He's a beaut! Enjoy every minute!!😍😍😍
Congratulations 🎊🎉👏🏻🍾 so very pleased, you so deserve this😘🥰 and I am sure I am not alone in saying that you have been a huge support to many people on here and your positivity through your tough journey has been inspirational. Wishing you all the best for your life as a Mummy xx
Soooo happy for you . I was just reading your long post that u wrote 2 yrs ago and can’t deschow happy i am for u . As it is really frustrating not to know why it didn’t go well
Thank you so much! That’s really sweet of you. My son is 8 months old now and we have 3 embryos left. Feel like the luckiest person in the world at times. It was totally worth the long journey! He’s such a lovely baby too. For me I believe it was getting my progesterone levels tested and switching what progesterone I was on that eventually got me pregnant. Where are you on this journey? X
God bless him for you ❤️ . Glad that you know what kept you away from such a blessing.
I had one faild cycle 2 weeks ago and planning to tru again in 2 months but i have to start from the beginning since i only got 5 fertilised and obly 2 good quality embryos managed to survive and transferred both of them so nothing left.
I do have concerns about tbe vaginal progesterone i have feelings that I doesn’t work although i had all related symptoms.
They didn’t check my levels but next time will definitely do check them regularly.
Thank you Hope! He’s 11 months old now, I can’t believe he’s here still?! It took a lot of time and patience and pain but I always had hope so you’ve got a great forum name xxx
It's been 7 years of infertility.. 1st ivf seems like failed cant explain my pain in words.. Don't know wt to say what not.. But your journey gives me hope... Plz pray for me too
So sorry to hear you’re on such a long journey - I just kept hopeful and kept going, always believing that it would work - I wish you all the luck and positivity in the world that you get your baby too x
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