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This is my third attempt at IVF and I really am praying for it to be successful. I had my FET on 12th February. Will be going for my beta HCG test tomorrow. I am scared to death.

This time however I have been experiencing mild back ache and cramps since 4dp3dt. The pain had subsided on day 7 and 8 and there has been mild back ache and stomach cramps.

Is it over or should I be hopeful? Anyone who has had similar symptoms?

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amandac84

Wishing you lots of luck for tomorrow. Well done you made it to the end of the tww. Get yourself a good sleep tonight if you can cx

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Keepingfaith85

Hi hun, I have my beta tomorrow too πŸ™ˆπŸ˜¬ let's hope it's third time lucky for us both xxxx

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alishakanakiaβ€’ in reply toKeepingfaith85

Baby dust to us🀞🏼

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Keepingfaith85β€’ in reply toalishakanakia

I think your title sums it up! Good luck for tomorrow lovely 😘

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alishakanakiaβ€’ in reply toKeepingfaith85

Good luck to u too..let’s pass thru this together 😘

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KiboXXβ€’ in reply toalishakanakia

Good luck to both of you! β™₯️🀞🏻

Wishing you all positive vibes my lovely xxxxx you will be all good πŸ₯°β€οΈπŸ₯°β€οΈ

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BroodySingle

Good luck! πŸπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€πŸπŸ€žπŸΌπŸ€ xxx

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Littlepeax

Best of luck to you β™₯οΈπŸ’«πŸ€ž

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Core

Good luck for tomorrow xx

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HelenJudi1

Good luck!

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alishakanakia

I have given my blood and the reports should be out in a few hours. I am going crazy thinking about the results. I don’t know how I will cope if this doesn’t work.

I am scared to death.

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CLDxxxβ€’ in reply toalishakanakia

Wishing you all the luck lovely πŸ’•

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Keepingfaith85β€’ in reply toalishakanakia

Just done my blood test too. Wishing you loads of luck xxx

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Littlepeaxβ€’ in reply toKeepingfaith85

Eeeeeeekkkkk πŸ₯°πŸ€ž

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Littlepeaxβ€’ in reply toalishakanakia

Keep strong β™₯οΈπŸ’«πŸ€ž

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Beaver84

Positive vibes and everything crossed for you xx

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alishakanakiaβ€’ in reply toBeaver84

Thank u..a few hours before I get the news🀞🏼

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Beaver84β€’ in reply toalishakanakia

Everything crossed for you :) xx

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Peanutchips

Sending loads of positive vibes. Well done on getting through the 2ww! I also have my beta today. All the very best 🀞🏻

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CLDxxxβ€’ in reply toPeanutchips

Good luck to you xxx

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alishakanakiaβ€’ in reply toCLDxxx

Thank u

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alishakanakiaβ€’ in reply toPeanutchips

All the best to u too🀞🏼

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Lucyhannah1

Good luck! I also had my transfer on the 12th and had cramps days 3-5 past. I’ve got my BFP! Fingers crossed you do too xx

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alishakanakiaβ€’ in reply toLucyhannah1

I wish I get mine too🀞🏼

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Nikkinikkit

Good luck to you 🀞🏻 I’m on tablets and nasal spray for my first FET which will be our last embryos, praying for all of us awaiting positive news ❀️ Xxx

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Sugarbean

Good luck x

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alishakanakia

Mine is a negative. I hope the others who were with me give some good news. All the best lovelies😘

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Keepingfaith85β€’ in reply toalishakanakia

So sorry to hear that Alisha πŸ˜” do whatever you need to do today and make sure you spoil yourself. We go through so much for this xxxx

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CLDxxxβ€’ in reply toalishakanakia

So sorry Alisha. Sending love πŸ’—

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KiboXXβ€’ in reply toalishakanakia

I’m so sorry to see this today. Sending you a big hug xxx

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Gagasβ€’ in reply toalishakanakia

Sorry to hear this. Keep focus on the final goal and try to be positive I know how difficult it is. Loads of love.

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Peanutchipsβ€’ in reply toalishakanakia

I’m so sorry to hear that. Mine is also negative. This is so hard. Sending lots of positive vibes your way and hope you’re able to find hope and strength to try again soon x

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Hartley1

So sorry Alisha...its not easy. When you feel ready try again. Dont lose hope Xxx

this is my 4th transfer...Ive been same as you been getting cramps..had transfer on Tues Thursday half day of crying next friday half day of anger towards my mother in law...and then bad headache on sat now im on tuesday...is that day 8...wondering if it's gna work...at this stage I feel if it doesnt work can only blame myself...but its not a very nice feeling...when I'm wiping not fresh blood but traces of something. Feeling so rubbish. At least you're not a crazy woman like me ...i blame the hormones xxxxx

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Gagas

Hi Alishakanakia,

I went through the process only once and I can't recall any of these symptoms. I will try again next month. Unfortunately there is anything we can do just wait and have hope. Stress and anxiety doesn't help in anyway just try to keep your mind busy with other things.

I really hope that you're lucky.

All the best

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Chantysal

Also got my negative today.. my third try too.. πŸ˜” hopefully the fourth will all get those two lines... stay strong and keep going .. we got this 😎

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Peanutchipsβ€’ in reply toChantysal

So sorry to hear you got a negative as well. Sending πŸ’•

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RhinoCat

You won’t know until ya test so best just to stay positive for now πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’πŸ’ hoping for you πŸ™πŸ»

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12356

Oh so sorry for all those that got Negative, for those still waiting baby dust to you all❀❀❀❀

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Peanutchipsβ€’ in reply to12356

Thank you x

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alishakanakia

I hope I can gather the courage to go through this emotional turmoil again..wishing luck to all those who are waiting and to those who will soon join the waiting line..sorry to hear about the negatives

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Peanutchips

Loads of hugs πŸ’•

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