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Started cramping and bleeding on Wednesday which was 10dp3dt. Continued bleeding yesterday and tested today with our BFN, we expected it but I guess there is always a bit of hope.

Think we need some time now away to try to get our lives back to normal, then we'll reassess. Got a meeting with our specialist on 16th March so I guess we'll see what he has to say.

Also to top off a really crap day I've just been to the dentist and a filling so now I have a numb mouth and fat tongue... I need gin! ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ

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Sorry to hear about your negative, Misky. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ Hope you got some good drugs at the dentist. Feel free to have a gin! It's 5 o'clock somewhere, right?

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RhinoCat

So sorry MiskyB ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿคฌ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ข....... that gin will taste so good tonight . It feels nice to get a break from it all, once youโ€™ve had a few days to cry and stuff. No tablet, no stinky gel.

Get the hot water on for those baths and feel free to cut loose and truly relax from the intensity of it all .

Here if ya need,

Hugs of understanding ,

Rhinocat x ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

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RhinoCat

Maybe wait until the numb fades, we donโ€™t want to spill a drop of that gin ๐Ÿฅ‚ ๐Ÿ˜˜

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Tugsgirl

Bfns are hard even if we think weโ€™re prepared for one. Enjoy your G and T. Youโ€™ve earned it xx

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L400ynd

Lots of love. Same thing happened with us yesterday. Itโ€™s horrible.

I agree you do need time away and have some good one on one time with your hubs before making a decision going forward.

Good luck going forward lovely. Xxx

Sorry to read this โค๏ธ Take all the gin you want, pamper yourself.. xx

Im so sorry MiskyB, think you really deserve that gin. Take some time out to really look after you xx

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Dinah_lady

Hi Misky. Hope you are doing ok... so sorry you got a negative. Drink that gin and savour it. Definitely do some special things this wknd for yourself... and make some plans of things to look forward to... you deserve it X x

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hifer

Hey sweets. I always need gin!! Am so sorry to hear your news. Itโ€™s so hard and I really feel for you after having one myself. Time away is a very good idea to regroup before next steps xx

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Luna_79

So sorry to hear this Misky I started bleeding 10 days after a 5dt called the clinic and they said might not mean it hasnโ€™t worked though in my heart I just knew it was period cramping and bleeding, got my BFN on Sunday morning and just couldnโ€™t stop crying even though Iโ€™d already told myself to expect this , it just sucks we have 1 frozen embryo , we got 2 the one the put back the 1st time was the better quality one so I just felt like no hope on Sunday. I guess it just takes time to gone to terms , hope you enjoyed they Gin and your filling wasnโ€™t too bad xx

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