Had a light bleed on Xmas Eve which ended quickly...nothing else through the week and on Friday I did a digital clearblue test that showed 2-3 weeks
Hurray
Saturday I finally relaxed and believed I was pregnant and went off to central London to meet family who had IVF babies....
Halfway through I felt hot and cramping and went to the toilet and had a heavy gushing bleeding with some clotting. Had to confide in the babies mum that I was bleeding and pregnant and she reassured me and told me of nearest hospital
Bleeding eased after the gush and we went to dinner with friends
It then continued cramping and bleeding and the journey home was horrendous - so painful I felt faint and thought I'd haemorrhage on the train (!)
Four hours of heavy bleeding and intense pain it stopped after midnight and I slept through the night.
Very light spotting bleeding all day and now I'm cramping and it's getting heavier again slightly
Did another digital test now (on 4 HR urine but it's very diluted ) and it now shows 1-2 weeks
I know they're unreliabke and it could be because it's diluted urine but I did feel last night the level of twisting and bleeding and cramping I must have miscarried
I'm upset because I've been really busy rushing around and hubby kept telling me to test- and as soon as we went out it happened - and I couldn't even lie down
Gutted but also quite accepting of it now - and just want a scan tomorrow to confirm it either way
We were about to tell my family tonight so quite sad...but I'm glad we didn't now
We were so close but I'm still happy that we even got a BFP(!) First ever - so it can happen
Maybe this wasn't our time 😔
Hope all you lovely ladies get your good news soon and those who are pregnant have a smooth pregnancy xxx
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I had really hoped this had just been a horrible little blip. I’m really sorry if you’re experiencing a miscarriage. I still obviously hope you aren’t. Thinking of you xx
Let me know how you get on, will be thinking of you xxx
I’m so sorry to hear what you are going through. I had a chemical pregnancy last year & it was so heartbreaking. Rest assured it was nothing you did wrong; if it was going to go wrong it would happen whatever you did. I bed rested but didn’t prevent my miscarriage.
I would urge you to contact your GP first thing & they can refer you to the early pregnancy unit. Any bleeding in pregnancy should never be ignored.
I have had red bleeding with clots with this pregnancy & my baby is fine, so you can bleed in early pregnancy and be fine! I also bled with my son at 7 weeks like a period & lost so much blood I thought I had lost him.
Really hope you are one of the ladies that have a bleed & baby is fine 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 xoxo
I’m so very sorry that you’re going through this 😔 it’s awful getting that positive and finally allowing yourself to believe it, just to have it all snatched away. I too have seen that fading result on a clear blue so know how devastating it is. Thinking of you and keeping my fingers tightly crossed xxx
Oh no 😭😭 i really hope this is not the case, and your scan shows your little one there still. However if this is not the case please don't blame yourself in anyway, no matter if you had been on permanent bedrest if its sadly not meant to be nothing will change that. Thinking of you for tomrrow xx
Oh dear hun, if it not meant to be even you will be super cautious you won’t stop it. Please don’t blame yourself for it, it’s really not your fault. I do hope however you are one of those ladies who bleed and your baby will be fine 😘thinking of you and sending lots of cuddles, it’s difficult time for you xxx
I’m so sorry this is happening, this must be so stressful 🙁 Will be thinking of you tomorrow. Hopefully everything is still ok though I understand you are very worried xx
You are doing amazing by keeping calm. And you are right, whatever happened, happened and nothing will change it. It is certainly very positive in terms of the next cycle. Big hugs xx
Oh that must have been horrible being away from home bleeding heavily and feeling terrible. Even tho you’ve been doing pregnancy tests hcg can remain in you body for a little while I’d ring EPU tell them what’s happened and you’ve still got positive tests they should scan u to make sure firstly if you’ve actually mc and if there’s pregnancy tissues left.
I am so sorry you are going through this. Do go and get a scan done when you can just so that you can have a better idea of what's going on. I had a miscarriage earlier this year and it is awful so I know your pain and the distress it brings. I am thinking of you xx
I feel strong and positive for next time and truly think this was my wake up call to sort out a few things with my health to support a pregnancy and may truly not have been our time
It would have been lovely but I am still over the moon that we even got pregnant
Maybe it was a chromosomal issue with these embryos or maybe it was side effects from.drugs like high blood sugar's
Whatever it is I think I know what I have to do and am raring to again.
I just hate the way it happened and as I was so far away from home. You can't help but feel you made it worse or overdid it even though I know it's not necessarily the case
You're all an inspiration and hope you have a wonderful new year whatever your situation xxx
Sorry that Im writing to u this late! We’ve been on travel to London for Christmas and didnt check a lot so I missed your post! Soooo sorry for your mc but as u said it feels good that u could get pregnant at least and for sure next time they will do more medications to treat u well with a healthy pregnancy! Wish u all the best in world and sending u baby dusts and hugs! xxxxxx
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