9dp5dt I’m bleeding, super crampy and there is relatively large clots which means I guess we’re definitely out after this transfer!
Why is this journey so hard, so full of highs and crippling lows?
I guess it was never meant to be easy! We will get our rainbow baby one day but it won’t be this round! 😓
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So very sorry to hear this. It really is a awful journey but keep going you can win this battle 💞 Be kind to yourselves & wishing happier times are ahead for you xoxo
I'm really sorry to hear that! It's terribly disappointing to start bleeding early, I had this on 2 of my transfers at day 7. I would mention this to the clinic as you may need to be on higher progesterone. Hugs.xx
It certainly is! I will do, thanks hun. I didn’t bleed/get my period until 2 days after I stopped the pessaries with my two IUIs but with this transfer I was put on crinone and I’m bleeding now. So I’ll mention it. Xx
I'd defo ask to use the utrogestan next time then. Always go with your gut instinct. My private clinic thinks that crinone is crap but the NHS in the UK seem to opt for it loads.xx
Oh no hun I’m so sorry 😔 This IVF Journey is so stressful...and what we all going through... I don’t know what to say hun ...I’m trying my self to stay positive till my OTD 5 April ...😔 I know how u feel and u shouldn’t because u deserve to be a mum ...xxx
Stay positive and hang in there hun. My OTD is the 1st but it seems pointless now. :/ I’m going to call the clinic when they’re open tomorrow. You definitely deserve to be a mum too sweetie, sending love and positive vibes your way xx
Thank u hun . I think the hardest thing is for me when I got this negative feelings but I cannot show to my hubby...I just don’t want to upset him before we know . He is very supportive so I need him to stay like that . First night after transfer I had such a bad dream that I wake up crying and I need to switch sides with hubby. Every night I got weird dreams .. There r moment I want to cry ...feeling very emotional...😔 Xxx I wish for all of us here and there who go through ivf to have positive outcome 🙏
Aww sweetie sorry to hear you’re going through such a rough time. I too try and hide some of my emotions/sadness about all this but sometimes he sees right through it. Sending you a big hug xx
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