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9dp5dt I’m bleeding, super crampy and there is relatively large clots which means I guess we’re definitely out after this transfer!

Why is this journey so hard, so full of highs and crippling lows?

I guess it was never meant to be easy! We will get our rainbow baby one day but it won’t be this round! 😓

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So very sorry to hear this. It really is a awful journey but keep going you can win this battle 💞 Be kind to yourselves & wishing happier times are ahead for you xoxo

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Thank you sweetie. I hope you’re well. Xx

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Tugsgirl

It definitely isn’t easy 😞 When you do get there it will all have been worth it though, I promise xx

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Ajplus1 in reply toTugsgirl

Thanks hun, hopefully we get there one day! Xx

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Debrakay1704

Take care of yourself, it is so hard but please try to stay positive but take time. xxxx

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Ajplus1 in reply toDebrakay1704

Thank you. Will try my best. Xxx

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Alpatchino

I am sorry Ajplus. This is not the end. It is just such a hard process. Take care of yourself.

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Ajplus1 in reply toAlpatchino

It’s definitely not the end. Thank you x

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Littleflower82

💔sry to read this, its just a such a rollercoaster of a journey regarding emotions and can b so heartbreaking. Take care and build up to go again xx

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Ajplus1 in reply toLittleflower82

Thank hun. I will definitely try my best. Xx

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Cinderella5

I'm really sorry to hear that! It's terribly disappointing to start bleeding early, I had this on 2 of my transfers at day 7. I would mention this to the clinic as you may need to be on higher progesterone. Hugs.xx

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Ajplus1 in reply toCinderella5

It certainly is! I will do, thanks hun. I didn’t bleed/get my period until 2 days after I stopped the pessaries with my two IUIs but with this transfer I was put on crinone and I’m bleeding now. So I’ll mention it. Xx

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Cinderella5 in reply toAjplus1

Crinone didn't work well for me. What did you get when you did your IUI? I had Cyclogest and this has worked for me so far since.xx

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Ajplus1 in reply toCinderella5

With my IUIs I had Utrogestan pessaries. I seemed to have a lot more negative side effects with crinone. Xx

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Cinderella5 in reply toAjplus1

I'd defo ask to use the utrogestan next time then. Always go with your gut instinct. My private clinic thinks that crinone is crap but the NHS in the UK seem to opt for it loads.xx

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Ajplus1 in reply toCinderella5

Yeah I will when we Plan the next cycle. I still have to have my Beta on Monday. I spoke to the nurses today. Xx

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Novice_knitter

Am so sorry to hear this news, I hope your times comes next time and the clinic can adjust things xx

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Ajplus1 in reply toNovice_knitter

Thank you hun. Me too. Will be good to have it all confirmed so we have a plan moving forward. Xx

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Olivia1980xxx

Oh no hun I’m so sorry 😔 This IVF Journey is so stressful...and what we all going through... I don’t know what to say hun ...I’m trying my self to stay positive till my OTD 5 April ...😔 I know how u feel and u shouldn’t because u deserve to be a mum ...xxx

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Ajplus1 in reply toOlivia1980xxx

Stay positive and hang in there hun. My OTD is the 1st but it seems pointless now. :/ I’m going to call the clinic when they’re open tomorrow. You definitely deserve to be a mum too sweetie, sending love and positive vibes your way xx

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Olivia1980xxx in reply toAjplus1

Thank u hun . I think the hardest thing is for me when I got this negative feelings but I cannot show to my hubby...I just don’t want to upset him before we know . He is very supportive so I need him to stay like that . First night after transfer I had such a bad dream that I wake up crying and I need to switch sides with hubby. Every night I got weird dreams .. There r moment I want to cry ...feeling very emotional...😔 Xxx I wish for all of us here and there who go through ivf to have positive outcome 🙏

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Ajplus1 in reply toOlivia1980xxx

Aww sweetie sorry to hear you’re going through such a rough time. I too try and hide some of my emotions/sadness about all this but sometimes he sees right through it. Sending you a big hug xx

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Sweets1

So very sorry to hear this. It is so hard. I’m thinking of you both. Take time for each other, you will get there. Sending big hugs xxx

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Ajplus1 in reply toSweets1

Thank you sweetie. I hope you’re doing well xx

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Sweets1

Not to bad thanks, look after yourself now xxxx

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Ajplus1 in reply toSweets1

You too hun xx

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