Hoping for the best

[29beckie]

I’m 9 weeks today Ino I should be the happiest iv ever bin but after having a missed miscarriage at this point last time I’m just so worried, iv booked a private scan in tomorrow an I am so nervous I don’t want to put my husband through this again just praying everything is ok I just have that gut feeling and have had no pregnancy symptoms for the past couple of days now

[Leesara]

From the past I can relate to how u must be really. Easier said than done but try to keep your stress down and feel reassured that you and your partner are there for each other.

All the best for the scan tomorrow- sending you both hope and positivity xx

[29beckie in reply to Leesara]

Thanks I haven’t told him how worried I am so thank you for your support, hope your well xx

[Leesara in reply to 29beckie]

Do u think it might be a good idea to let your partner know how you are feeling? It’s likely he feels the same, maybe?

I sometimes feel like we hold in our emotions and that can make it worse.... I’m sure he is apprehensive too, so maybe by sharing, you will be in the same boat and be able to support each other x

[29beckie in reply to Leesara]

It ended in me going to get some ice cream he’s not much of a talker I’ll just wait for tomorrow xx

[Leesara in reply to 29beckie]

Hope the ice cream was yum! I would have got cookie dough!!

Be thinking of you today/ do let me know how you get on xx

[29beckie in reply to Leesara]

Hi thanks for your support last night I just got back from scan and everything was fine I really need to think positive from now on.

Thanks again xx

[Leesara in reply to 29beckie]

Oh Becky- that’s great news! So glad to hear it. It’s easier to think of the past, much harder to stay in the moment. Just do your best to stay in the moment and be positive and reach out if you need support. U can always pm me, I’ve been there before and can guess how your feeling. Perhaps an evening ice cream treat? X

[29beckie in reply to Leesara]

Wish I could post you some cookie dough 🍪 x

[Leesara in reply to 29beckie]

Haha! I’ve just made chilli and prawn linguini, not way could I fit in any ice cream. X

[Lindaashleyrosie]

Good luck with your scan,I really know how you feel. I'm 6 weeks tomorrow and just keep freaking out that it might not be real. I don't have any sore boobs or morning sickness but keep showing a positive pregnancy test. What can you do in this situation? Just wait for time to pass I guess. Sorry I realise this isn't helpful at all but I understand and have my fingers firmly crossed for you!

[29beckie in reply to Lindaashleyrosie]

Hope you manage to enjoy your journey worrying is horrible and it takes over I just got back from my scan and everything is fine thank god I’m really going to try and enjoy as much as I can every step is closer xx

[Mara84]

Honey it’s absolutely normal to be nervous but you are not putting your husband through anything, this had happened to you and No one is too blame.

Try to relax and think positive...had missed miscarriages before myself I know how difficult it is to stay positive but at the end of the day that’s the only thing we can do 😘