I know it's a little early still, but I know deep down in my heart this my FET with my two baby embies didnt work. I am absolutely devastated. It's such an awful feeling 💔 I feel like someone is standing on my chest.
I'm not even sure if IVF will ever work, I have severe endometriosis and my lining has alot of adhesions, scar tissue and polyps in the past. I just dont think my 3 little embies I've had are able to implant. Not sure what my next steps are but I am so grateful for finding this website and coming across of all you. Thank you all so much for your kind comments, encouragement & support. I feel less alone and makes it that little bit easier ♥️♥️♥️
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Its way to early to count yourself out. I have had a negative test at 7dpt and gone on to have a positive at 9dpt and even not had a positive until 11dpt. I know it feels like self protection thinking you are out but try and channel the PMA because sometimes the feel good hormones are the thing you might just need to help them stick x
We are in same boat dear but I think we have spent so much money n emotions in this procedure so let's give it another 7more days to get the final results....finger cross...best of luck to u and me🤗🤗🤗
Sending you all the hope and positive vibes. As others have said it may well be just too early and I hope so much that is the case for you. I hope you can be kind to yourself over the next few days and just hang in there for what may still be a happy ending. And if it’s not this time then it doesn’t mean the future can’t still bring you your dreams. Sending you virtual hugs and keeping everything crossed xx
Don’t lose hope yet...as everyone has mentioned, it may still be too early to count yourself out. I know, and I’m certain most on this site know exactly what you’re feeling, so keep your spirits up and here’s wishing you a BFP on official test day! I myself am trying to contain my emotions and think positively, I’m 6 days post FET and not feeling any symptoms...so trying to stay positive. ❤️ Hoping you do the same!!
Its still way early honey! Dont count yourself out yet. I know a few ladies that have babies & didn't have a BFP at that stage!! Love the pic, it's so bloody true!!xxx
As others have said, you are still in the race, I know the next few days will take forever to pass, but try and keep positive and very busy. Thursday will come.
We are all with you on this emotional rollercoaster.
Sending love and hugs 🤗 from your ivf sister in the club from hell 😏 you’ve still got quite a few days to wait? It’s ok to keep expectation low , but right now, that test could be wrong 🤷🏼♀️ or right 🤷🏼♀️ What date did your clinic tell you to test?
Still tonight and tomorrow day and night before Thursday 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 💖💖💖💐💐💐💐 hugs to your heart 💓
With regards the 2ww..... now I get the google every symptom phase 🤣🤣🤣 crampy tummy again tonight , sore head and lots of lady discharge . Feel like my period will be here shortly. All estrogen and progesterone related I’m sure 🙄🥴🙈
Ahhh so sorry to hear this sad new LittlePea. It’s truly hurts your heart when you know it’s hasn’t worked. I am so glad you have found being a member on her has helped you a lot I know it did me too.
Will you give it another go or look at other options? Xxx
I'm really not too sure yet. I think I def need more surgery to help treat/remove my endometriosis scarring. I've completely changed my diet which has massively helped with pain and symptoms. Just not enough to conceive 😪 x
Let me repeat myself 🥰 there is still hope hun do not lose it! Wait another day or two and test again, with frozen transfers sometimes implantation takes longer. What make test did you use?
Sending lots of hugs and positive vibes your way and I hope you get a positive result next time you test! 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🙏🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕💕💕xxx
Most days we become weak and lose hope which is only natural as we are fighting with our own bodies on a daily basis and its an endless fight! it gets so hard and emotional.
Sometimes we just question our self why did there have to be something wrong with me!? But always remember we all have something we are fighting for in life. There are people who are able to have kids and I am sure they love their children. But when we all have our children after all the struggle, tears, emotional breakdowns, mental breakdowns and darkness we will truly appreciate our babies so much more then anyone else in the world and treasure each second with them.
My own sister struggled for 7 years and she finally got pregnant on her third try and she has triplets!
Aw, hang in there Littlepeax, it’s still very early! I didn’t get a BFP until 8dp5dt and I’ve seen lots of ladies on various forums that end up with babies who didn’t have a BFP at this stage. You’re really not out yet!
I’ll be keeping my fingers crossed we see a ‘after all the worry a few days ago today I got my BFP!’ post from you in the coming days!! 😝🌈🙏xx
Thanks hun, still a BFN for me ♥️ but I'm ok, I had already accepted it. Have gone away for a few days to relax. Hope you're feeling ok in your tww xxx
I’ll probs be same . Just being realistic, not too many get their ✅ on the first go, but I’m hoping at least consultants have learnt some things in their experiment 🧪 at my expense.
Hope you can find a way to pick yourself up and try again 💐💐💐💖💖💖💖 much love 💖 take time to heal , eat your favourite things and only spend time with people who actually get it!
Thanks so much ♥️ and yes exactly, it's all experience and learning what you can do/change next time to improve your chances. Keep positive, it's still very early for you 🥰🙏
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